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52 South Orange, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My primary reason for my being on here is that I want to find a partner with whom I can build a mutually nurturing relationship, get married, and hopefully even have a child.
Sounds too traditional for this site, I know... but that's where I'm at.
I am a progressive minded, articulate, sexy, intellectual, sensual man. I enjoy both quiet time and being adventurous, so I can sit quietly at home reading or watching a film, but I also do disaster relief & intervention, skydiving, hiking, parasailing, jetskiing, world travel, or just dancing the night away. I am a caring, sensitive he-man; a living paradox. I am not much of a spectator, and you would never find me sitting in front of a television watching sports- I'm more likely to be playing.
I pride myself on being well informed on matters of world affairs and current events, in fields from the arts to science, politics, and technology. I'm an information junkie, listen to NPR daily, and crave a relationship with a woman who is equally curious about her surroundings. To me, striving for an ever greater understanding of our selves, our world, and those we share it with is the essence of spirituality.
I am an ((Atheist)), (post-theist is the term I prefer) and am firm in my belief that humans need to grow beyond ancient factions of organized religions and fairy tales about how we got here if we can ever hope to survive. Imagine no religion.

I am Post-Theist, Post-Structuralist, and Ready.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fighting for truth, justice, and numerous other progressive causes. I am an Emergency Psychiatric Clinician. I am also in the middle of renovating a 153 year old pre-Victorian home, which is frustrating me to no end, but I am looking forward to the final product.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Quite a bit, if I don't say so myself. I'm a great listener. An excellent dancer. An insightful and stimulating conversationalist. An empathic lover. Last, but not least, I'm humble. =)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dashing good looks, my intellect and verbal ability, my caring sensitive nature peppered with he-man sensibilities, and again, the fact that I am so humble.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Autobiography of Malcolm X, The HitchHiker's Guide to the Galaxy (A Trilogy of Four Books), The God Delusion, The End of Faith, Civilization and its' Discontents, The Super Cops, Thoughts Without a Thinker..

Movies: Pulp Fiction, Goodfellas, Unbreakable, Airplane, Snatch (or most anything Guy Ritchie), Amelie, Seabiscuit, Any Alfred Hitchcock, Woody Allen, M. Night Shamylan...

Music: Pink Floyd, Moby, Talking Heads, The Cure, The Smiths, Mana, Mr. Magic by Grover Washington Jr., NIN, Rage Against the Machine, Radiohead, Steely Dan, Dire Straits, Miles Davis, Coldplay, Take Five by Dave Brubeck, Thievery Corporation, Bebel Gilberto....

Foods: A Frosty cold glass of ice water with cucumber slices in it, Diet Mountain Dew, Dragon Rolls, Shrimp Nirgizi, Mamoun's Falafel, Arturo's Thin crust Eggplant & Ricotta Pizza...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
HOPE is truly the only thing I need to go on, but I truly appreciate NPR, Broadband Internet, Summer Sunshine, Passion, and Freedom of Speech.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to rearrange my sock drawer....
How Fox, CNBC, and the vast majority of the mass media get away with being cheerleaders for the Plutocracy and get away with calling it 'news'. Jon Stewart rules.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Rearranging my sock drawer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My life is TV free, 'cept for Jon Stewart, Colbert, and Bill Maher, every once in a while.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking to build a serious nurturing connection and partnership. You value intellect, emotional availability, and want to have a child, or share your child rearing goals with the right guy.