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45 Laguna Beach, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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5' 8" (1.73m)
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Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Dynamic introvert and/or extrovert, as situation requires or mood strikes. Quick with wit and action; rarely at a loss for words. Frequently facetious. Creative, intelligent, skilled with hands and not afraid to dirty them. Problem solver, resourceful, driven, and intense. Loyal friend to the end.

Can occasionally be oblivious, which is sometimes misinterpreted as disinterested and/or cocky. Good at reading people, but not women if they are interested; was once told "a woman could come at you with a baseball bat, and you'd have no clue she was hitting on you." True.

As a younger lad, was the kid staring out the window during class, infuriating teachers with what they perceived as lack of interest (not to mention mediocre attendance). Was (is) easily bored, but earned A-grades. Was not challenged all the way through high school and even into college. Long-time restless dreamer. Developed greater education partially through studying, but mostly by 'doing.'

Facial hair comes and goes (currently no facial hair). Looks good with shirt off, if you're into that sort of thing (finished T25, moved on to P90X). Cleans-up remarkably well (for an "old" guy), and looks decent in a suit.

Also: sails, rides bikes (the vintage beach cruiser variety with pedals), takes photos (used to develop photos in a darkroom), collects cars, draws things by hand using pencil and paper, owns a home. Prefers fresh air and open windows instead of A/C (proximity to ocean = nice breeze). Father is an Engineer and Mother is an artist and writer, so offspring is a unique and rare combination of logical, intelligent, resourceful, and creative.

Not desperate or a serial dater/killer.
Mostly here for the forums, or what's left of them.
If you've set your height filter to 6' or taller, you will never see this.
What I’m doing with my life
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Growing a business. Two of them, actually.
Finishing a major remodel on my place. New floors finally week of 12/1!
Spending as much time as possible on boats.
"Gonna get my kicks before the whole shithouse goes up in flames."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using power tools
Shaving (I know, right?)
Devouring homemade chocolate chip cookies (without nuts)
Functioning on 3 or 4 hours of sleep
The first things people usually notice about me
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The hair. Definitely the hair.
And eyes. I have a pair of them; my parents gave them to me.
Or, maybe cheekbones.
The only thing I have in common with Dominos: I deliver.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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EDM, preferrably towards progressive house-ish/chillout stuff, but mostly stuff with a melody and not too much repetition. Old school New Wave. I have a mixing board that I mess around with when the mood strikes.

I like home renovation, so HGTV. Last year I watched the entire Breaking Bad series beginning to end (thanks Netflix).

I used to be a voracious reader, but can't seem to find the time these days.

Food: dislikes most seafood and all mushrooms. No fungus, thanks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good company/friends/family; you know, obvious human stuff
Blue masking tape (I put that shit on everything!)
Days on the ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-The trials and tribulations of owning my own business (is my boss a kind of a jerk)

- That perfect mid-century home that needs restoration/updating, one that will go with the 1967 Herman Miller Eames chair my uncle gave me (he bought it new).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Planning my reign as The Not-So-Benevolent Dictator
Living the dream
Imagining your chagrin.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I never developed an affinity for beer.

I'm pretty sure cats are aliens (ever taken a good look at their eyes?)
Least favorite words: "entitled" and "worship."

Many of the happiest and most successful people I know are not college graduates. Their accomplishments, achievements, and prosperity are fueled by raw passion (not by education). Seems like a perfect way to "live the dream." Get out there and chase your dream!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your profile photos aren't all selfies.
You know the difference between "your" and "you're."
You don't have hang-ups about sex.

If I visited your profile and I didn't message you, it means... absolutely nothing. I'm mostly here for the forums. I rarely reach-out to anybody online, but I typically DO respond to e-mails. Seems like the adult thing to do. Enjoy.