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43 Sacramento, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jan 18
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I have heard that the most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire. I try to internalize this fact in every aspect of my life. Most people say I'm the most passionate person they have ever met, perhaps my Cuban roots have something to do with it!

Continuing the discussion on passion, my biggest one is physical fitness which has manifested in three completed Ironmans with the fourth one in preparation. I have also completed many marathons. To balance my physical fitness with mental, I also do Bikram yoga twice a week. So, as you can see, this man is a fit-machine!

You would never find me complaining about any life situation, rather I treat every moment as a gift and try to appreciate the inherent beauty in simplest of life experiences and things. I enjoy fine dining and drinking lots of coffee - I can take you to the best places in town, and easily 'show-and-tell' the subtle nuances and differences of the cuisine and coffee served around town.

Not one to let the left side of my brain go under-utilized, I work in technology during the day. I love what I do and feel fortunate to have found it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I am training for my next Ironman. I have an addiction to reading and usually have 3 or 4 books going at the same time. I feel a little out of sorts if I go to long without my yoga practice. I am Learning how to play guitar badly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a self starter. I actually enjoy the challenge involved in the process of figuring things out my own way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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how I radiate this seemingly ambivalent vibe of mystery and friendliness at the same time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by David Sedaris really makes me laugh.
Cadillac Desert because Mark Reisner made a potentially boring topic into a page turner.
The Lord of the Rings because they are the first books I read.
Gravity's Rainbow because every time I've read it I've uncovered something new.
Lolita because it's so well crafted.

My all time favorite movie is Annie Hall - it speaks to me. I love anything by Tarantino.

Any music especially live music except for hip hop or top 40 country western.

Any food except for fast food - Although if I were stuck on a deserted island I am thinking Japanese food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The warmth of hot coffee in the morning.

The intoxicating mixture of the the sudden adrenaline rush and the sense of accomplishment when I cross the finish line at the end of a race.

The anticipation of how the food I've ordered will taste.

The natural scent of a sweet, feminine woman

The escape of a good book.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what it's all about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
living it up and running the show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I steal donuts from Safeways!
You should message me if
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You lead an active life. You enjoy the finer things in life. You want to be a part of the enigmatic journey I am on.

Please DO NOT message me if your baggage is more than carry-on!