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25 Scheveningen, Netherlands Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 20
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a lover of rooibos tea.

I produce and direct theatre and also sometimes review it, if you are interested you can watch these here:

I grew up in Holland so can do a good impression of a Dutch person speaking English :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Producing for a few very diverse performance companies and artists. Directing ensemble theatre.

Generally, meeting lots of creative types and musicians so that I can create an extensive list of late night live music dives to attend midweek.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making Quesadillas, meeting new people and drinking wine (plus pretty much any other alcoholic beverage).

I really wish you could actually put that on a CV.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm a guy drinking wine (apparently this is rare in England)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Honestly, Sarah by JT Leroy is fantastic but really difficult to come by so if you're ever in a second hand book store and see a copy pick it up! Contemporary American Fiction and modern plays.

Music: Burial, The Smiths, Regina Spektor, Jay Z, The Kills, Polica, Santigold, Summer Camp, Bon Iver, Childish Gambino, Drake, Caribou, Foals, Explosions in the Sky, Beyonce, Daughter, SBTRKT, James Blake, Jamie Cullum, Placebo, Radiohead, Beach House and Arcade Fire.

Movies: Anything by Woody Allen!, The Kids Are Alright, After Hours, The Viscous Kind, Girl Interrupted, Mulholland Drive, Manic, Brick, Shutter Island, Batman, Naked Lunch, Breathless, Bande a part, Boogie Nights, Spun, Wes Anderson, My Summer of Love, Blue Valentine, Drive etc etc

TV shows: Mad Men, Community, New Girl, Parks and Rec, Girls, Luther, Treme and The Wire.

Food: Basically everything. Except beetroot (is that how you spell it? I don't know I avoid the damn things).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Coffee
- My friends
- Theatre
- New Music
- Cigarettes
- Wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to not think when I'm trying to sleep.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually I am out after work, either in London or back visiting friends in Bristol. Either at the theatre, dinner, pub, dancing or a combination of all four.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am quite an open person as it is so ask away!

Admittedly a cop out..... I have a slight fear of balloons. Or, more that someone will pick one up and burst it next to me by surprise.
You should message me if
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Please, insomniacs get in touch :-)

Also don't contact if you have ANY issues with LGBT rights and/or you don't support feminism in the 21st century (when really it should be second nature!)