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36 M Ridgecrest, CA

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm putting to practice my education and training in a new career field here in California. While I presently live in the middle of nowhere the on the job training and experience has been excellent. I work a great deal but the job security and future mobility makes this a great opportunity.

Fortunately, I'm only a couple hours away from the culture, education, sports, arts, and restaurants of Los Angeles, San Diego, Las Vegas, and the like. If I'm not here working out at the gym, doing crossfit at the box, or trying to increase my running distances and times I am either traveling to one of these great towns/cities, making friends laugh at a local bar or get together, or maybe attempting to play golf in the worst (but fun) manner possible.

I also like to explore new places. Whether it's in a car taking a road I've never been down or finding a tail in the mountains to discover a lake I've never seen. I haven't been camping in a long time but love nature and appreciate the small things around me like a good sunset or stars in a black unaltered sky. There are plenty of times however where it is also quite possible I'm home watching tv or a good movie lol.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning new things. There is so much to learn from the world around us and if we listen carefully we might even be surprised at what we can learn from ourselves.

Listening to people. I have an interest in people, their past experiences, present realities, and future aspirations. I'd like to think I am a helpful person even if it is only in small intentional actions.

Finally, I'm really good at making people laugh (sometimes at my own expense...but hey, it gets the job I can make a baby smile in a heartbeat and an adult cry with tears of silliness.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Going out on a limb I'll say its my outgoing personality and my smile. My close friends say it's my sincereity and authenticity. My enemies say it's my dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am an amalgamation of music. I believe it's an extension into myself at any given moment. Depending upon where I am at, who I am with, what I am doing, and what I am feeling the music is different. I honestly listen to a variety of music with my tastes evolving and changing with me through life.

My books are generally more nonfiction and could range from the genesis of language to the psychology of behavior, epistemology, existentialism, phenomenology, or medieval philosophy. Or, it might be about fixing or building something lol.

My movies and shows however are an entirely different matter all together. Here the world of science fiction, fantasy, drama, and action play out. I enjoy a good documentary there is no getting around it, but combining the world around us with the imagination and creativity of what could be is always fun for me. Especially if there are underlying themes which attempt to make a statement on our social constructs, political environments, humanity and morality, or philosophical ideals. What can I say...I'm a bit nerdy that way. LoL
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cup of coffee (usually just one in the morning but its oh so important)

Family (I love them but distance is a blessing haha)

My motorcycle (although I don't have one at the I suppose it technically doesn't belong on the list)

My mental faculties (The reason to my emotions, the logical order to the chaos all around me)

Dreams (or rather goals)

My sense of youthful adventure (that part of you that overtakes "don't do it", throws care to the wind, and lives life in the face of what we are told to be "at your age"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Almost everything..I'm a thinker
I like to think about the in-between, the darker side to light, motivators and inhibitors, the sensual, and the enlightened. The list goes on and you need a nap now lol?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It is hard to say. I do my best to vary my activities and keep options open. I might be kicking back at home for a quiet night of television, out for a run or hike, meeting some friends for dinner and drinks, or on the road less traveled.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I got nothing...we'll talk later lol. Truth be told my life is a fairly open book. I'll tell you pretty much anything you want to know about me.

Perhaps that I love California and don't particularly like where I live at the has its beauty...but I miss the green of trees, water of rivers and lakes, educational institutions, and cultural arts.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–41
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you aren't caught up in a love triangle, you like conversation, and you are intrigued by the idea that "good and bad" are descriptive terms which are relative.

You should message me if you don't have a criminal record or if you do and it's a really funny story. You can hold an intelligent conversation (or not so intelligent). You find me attractive (always feel that's a good start lol)