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Iqnavus

30 M Charlotte, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Making a long story short, I spent the latter part of my teens and twenties in the military before finally getting out and going back to school. I graduated with a degree in computer science and relocated to Charlotte to start a new job as a web developer.

I would say I'm an intelligent guy, and along the same lines, I'm very rational and analytical. I definitely enjoy the occasional friendly debate or deep conversation. Who can't find something to discuss with the state of politics and the economy these days? We don't have to agree; in fact, that often makes it better.

I have, within the last 2 years, really gotten into exercising. I couldn't tell anyone why it took me so long to enjoy it, although my theories have a lot to do with angry men in uniforms yelling at me while I worked out. I still occasionally have angry men yelling, but they're usually accompanied by music nowadays. I love to run, lift weights, even swim on occasion. If you're a gym rat or just a fitness enthusiast, I love comparing routines and talking about the science behind exercise and diet.

I play pool, throw darts, kill at paintball, ride my motorcycle, Netflix binge, go camping, read books, play disc golf, watch football, and the list goes on. My problem is usually finding the time to do everything. I bounce back and forth between bouts of activity and idle pleasures.

Being upfront, I'm in an open relationship. We are both okay with meeting, dating, befriending, and even loving other people. If you're comfortable with that, let's chat. Continuing the candid streak, being a guy on an online dating site, I've grown tired of the very one-sided interactions. If you message me first, it's definitely a point in your favor.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm starting a new career. It's been a little scary scrapping everything I knew and abandoning stability for what I really wanted to do, but so far, it's turning out fairly well.
I’m really good at
I am the tech support for my family and friends. It doesn't matter if I've never owned or even heard of the product in question, I'm going to be consulted anyway.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look like Jesus right now, so I've been told... repeatedly. Apparently all it takes is a white guy with long hair and a closely cropped beard.

In fact, at a recent hotel stay, one of the staff did a quick double-take and then proceeded to bow in front of me. If that weren't enough, my coworkers wanted me to pose in the pool standing on a submerged lounger... You get the idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Talk about a broad essay category...

Let's see, my taste in books ranges across multiple genres. I largely prefer sci-fi and fantasy for my fiction reading, but I pick up a lot of social commentary and political non-fiction books as well. I tend to devour books at a fairly quick rate. So here's a short list of some I've read recently:

Song of Ice and Fire Series by George R. R. Martin
Capitol Punishment the Autobiography of Jack Abramoff
Reefer Madness by Eric Schlosser
Devious by Lisa Jackson
Super Freakonomics by Stephen Levitt and Steven Dubner

As for movies, I like anything with a good twist, and the nerd in me digs ALL of the comic book movies that have been coming out lately. I'm not a huge fan of romantic comedies, but I don't know many guys that are really. I'll gladly sit and watch them if it means I get a good cuddle in though.

Moving on to music, the only types I really don't care too much for are rap and country music. There are exceptions within those two, but they're pretty few and far between. At this point in my life, I tend to enjoy Punk, Punk/Pop, and Alternative the most simply because I like having something that can either be upbeat or angst-filled depending on the day.

Lastly, I am definitely a foodie. While simple fare will do for an evening, a life without sushi, wine, seafood, or rare game is a sad one indeed. One of my many life goals is to try every new meat dish that I come across. I'm very much a carnivore, but I'm also not afraid of a little tofu and veggies.
The six things I could never do without
1) The internet (I'd have no job)
2) My smartphone (I'm a well-behaved addict, I swear)
3) Music (A change in mood is only a track away)
4) Food (Did I mention I like to try new things?)
5) Friends (Life is so much richer when shared)
6) Family (I wouldn't be where I am today without them)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
philosophy, theology, economics, politics, technology, and fitness.

Don't you?
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my small but growing circle of friends here in Charlotte, exercising in my home gym, or curled up with a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tell you just about anything if you ask.

But for here, I cry every time when Goose dies in Top Gun.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You made it this far down the page and hadn't navigated away already. After all, why would you read the whole thing if you didn't want to at least strike up a conversation?

Although, if that isn't enough, here's a quick guide. If you like to talk, converse, discuss, or debate, I'm always up for it. If you like sushi, anime, running, video games, sport bikes, computers, long hair on guys, books, or science in general, send me a message.

If you're the type of person that can wake up one weekend morning, realize that there's plenty of time left to go camping, take a road trip to a nearby city, go attempt any new recreational activity, but would be just as happy staying home and watching a movie as long as it wasn't EVERY weekend, message me.