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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:14pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English, German (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I moved here from England, and love living in SF. I think I've just about overcome the language barrier, although my accent can apparently still confuse (and inspire parody at the checkout, for some reason).

My interests include music (and lots of it; I'm happy to live near the Independent), film, books, travel, and doing the new and the random. I take my camera everywhere with me, and have a slightly subversive sense of humour, though it's very gentle. I'm part geek, but also pretty extroverted.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring, learning, and planning travel.

Workwise, I write software; unique, right? It's doing something very cool, but I'll save it for over a drink.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking pictures. Victorian detail, since I'm renovating my new place. I'm also learning the piano, though I should practise more; at least I don't get notes sent home to my parents now.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall, enthusiastic, and I laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently: Gil Scott-Heron and Jared Diamond. I also love J.G. Ballard, Murakami and Vonnegut.

I'm a huge music fan, liking Radiohead, lots of electronic stuff (think Four Tet and Bibio), J Dilla, and have weaknesses for post-punk - 70's stuff like Neu! and Can. Other than that, I like Nils Frahm, The Beatles, and excellent pop music.

Films? Stanley Kubrick's stuff, especially 2001. Anything by Christopher Nolan or Michael Winterbottom (I think The Trip is now one of my favourite films, although I can never take Michael Caine seriously again). Right now, I'm really into Paul Thomas Anderson.

For food; I'm not sure I can name anything in particular, but I'll go a long way for a good brunch at the weekend. I really miss English-style bacon, though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, and/or my Kindle.
My camera.
My phone (yup, this list is getting really cliched).
My bike.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Escaping to the outdoors.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Generally taking it easy and saving my energy for the weekend, or catching up with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll admit it over coffee.
You should message me if
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You have a sense of humour, and are passionate about what you do.