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29 Stony Brook, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:48am
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Recently started to question my sexuality. Looking for a relationship with a woman. (I am single, I won't surprise you with a guy looking for a threesome.)

These self-summaries are like trying to turn one's life and interest into the dust-cover on a book.
I'm not really good at doing self-advertising, which makes me a graphic artist unable to sell my art. Sometimes that happens, you go through life thinking you're one thing and, BAM, you realize you're not. So, I'm back to school for something completely unrelated- Environmental Science.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it?
I don't know. Trying to live it.

You know what?
Saying what you're doing with your life is absolute bull. It makes me think of little old grandmas sitting around drinking tea, looking for excuses to judge the youngin's.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of stuff and nothing. It depends on how high you set the bar of what makes someone 'good.' You might think I'm an excellent pianist, artist or whatnot, or you might think I'm an absolute dunce at all of those things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've asked a few people what they noticed, and they said my presence or aura. I'm radioactive!

According to the messages I get, my eyes are the most noticeable thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Damien and SteppenWolf by Herman Hesse, The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde, Augusten Burroughs, Wicked, Nineteen Eighty-Four by George Orwell, Anne Rice, Poppy Z. Brite's horror, I Am Legend (but, the movie made me SO MAD,) World War Z (Haven't been able to get through the movie yet,) When Nietzsche Wept, A Brief History of Time and The Grand Design by Stephen Hawking, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray

Movies: Marebito, Velvet Goldmine, Suicide Circle, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Battle Royale, Party Monster, Moulin Rouge, Donnie Darko, Devil's Rejects, Dead and Breakfast, Iron Man, Zombie Land, The Devil's Advocate, When Nietzsche Wept, District 9, Bright Star, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs, Blue Gold: World Water Wars, Anchorman, Friends With Benefits.

Music: Shakira, Britney Spears, Symphony of Science, Garfunkel and Oats, Lana del Rey, Macklemore and Ryan Lewis, and most 90s music, . Also- create a playlist based on 'The Final Countdown' by Europe on Pandora. It'll make your day awesome.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer, my cellphone, friends, shopping malls (not really to shop in, they're my zen place. I like walking around and people watching,) good coffee, and hot showers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything from wasps to cabbage to stardust, to how we've become so specialized as a society.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately I've just been focusing on school and not too social. It happens.

When I'm not being a hermit, I'm pretty adaptable. I like going out drinking, clubbing, dancing, performing poetry, and more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love both Gossip Girl and learning about quantum physics.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interested in chatting, or have a good documentary recommendation for me.

Bonus points if physical appearance doesn't mean much to you. I'm confident in how I look and I understand physical appearance is very important to most people, but it does very little for me. I'd kinda like to find someone else with that quirk.

Don't message me if you're looking for a quick lay or only sex. No matter how attractive or funny you might think you are, that isn't going to change my mind. I'm just not into that at this point in my life. That includes couples. If I'm not looking for random hookups with one person, what makes you think I'd want it with two?

If I don't reply to you right away, I'm sorry! Give me time. Unless you just said some simple variation of 'hi' or 'how are you.' If you did, that shows me you didn't read my profile.