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51 M Springfield, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:32am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
"When you meet someone you love, do you kiss their clothes? ... Search out who is inside." --- Rumi

First thing, I am not looking for a wife! Not looking for a live in girlfriend. I am looking for a friend, a friend with benefits. If by chance something more evolves from that, so be it, I am being 100% honest and upfront, no surprises. I am not interested in all the drama and crap associated with a "relationship". That being said I am honest, tired of the same shit over and over. Dont like what I say? move on. this is Me, 100%. no time for the pain, disappointments, lies, and demands. I am me, take it or walk, period. I know what I want, not going to sugar coat it, not going to be a phony to get a woman to like me. sorry, not my style, been there done that, epic fail.

I am an easy going man, mellow, laid back and chill most of the time, I do know how to relax and enjoy present company and surroundings.
I am sensitive, and compassionate, tolerant and kind.
I enjoy working outdoors in the warm weather, planting gardens, enjoy yard work.
Automobiles and Carpentry are some of my interest's and talents.
Amateur Radio, computer repair / network security,and of course more...
What I’m doing with my life
I am learning what it means to be me, always growing, expanding my mind and soul. Striving to connect with the inner pool of knowing, peace and tranquility.
I’m really good at
Being honest no matter what! Patience,Listening, compassion, seeing the positive side of things. Contemplating problems and coming up with solutions. Being a Gentleman!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Autobiography of a Yogi, Fire in the belly, out on a limb, Zen and the art of motorcycle mechanics, Rich dad Poor dad, TAO,Many More..
Music: Blues, some Jazz, Rock , really do not care for Country.
Food: Italian, American, Homemade Chili,.. Tofu Parmesan, so much more.
Shows: (concerts) Ted Nugent, Black sabbath, Kiss, Whitesnake, Motley Crew, Yes, Bob Dylan, Jethro Tull, Johnny Cash, many more.
TV Shows: Grays Anatomy, NCIS, Discovery Channel, etc.
Movies: Platoon, Deer Hunter, Apocalypse Now, A Clockwork Orange, Full Metal Jacket, So many more, Too many to list!
The six things I could never do without
Family - Friends - Freedom - Love - Compassion - Trust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life... And the pursuit of happiness. I spend a lot of time reflecting on me, I am Continually trying to improve myself on many levels.
On a typical Friday night I am
Honestly? I am sitting home, alone,. I do not do bars and clubs any more, those days are long behind me. I might watch a good movie, or just enjoy great conversation over coffee.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I blush. that's all you get for now. :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You would like a new friend, or if your wanting to know more...