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44 Kenmore, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 10
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm working on this.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm really good at dreaming up creative ways to have more fun in my life. I have a job that challenges my intellect and though processes, and I really enjoy it. I'm always on the run and plans change a lot. I just go with it... things tend to end up in good places.
I’m really good at
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Being friggin weird. But weird is the new cool, right?
The first things people usually notice about me
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If I'm wearing short sleeves, my tattoos. Or that I look like a mean looking burly guy. I can be intense :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Orange is the New Black, Game of Thrones, Dr Who, Lillyhammer, Firefly, Dollhouse. Too bad BSG ended. Family Guy, SouthPark when I can. I really don't have a lot of time for television.

I've read a veritable ton of boy-book political/action/drama/thriller books by a long list of authors. Lately, it's more technical manuals but I also have a growing library on poly, sex positive titles and others that deal with creative sexuality.

Movies, I love everything from Mel Brooks; Clerks, Pulp Fiction, 12 Monkeys, Boondock Saints, The Princess Bride, LOTR, Secretary, A Clockwork Orange, The Big Lebowski, Office Space, Short Bus, Woody Allen (better in the 70's-80's), Natural Born Killers, How to train your dragon, Shaun of the Dead, the Fifth Elment, Serenity, Starwars (older vs newer), American Beauty, Monty Python, Metropolis, most anything playing on AMC or TCM, Documentaries.

I range from the Dubliners, Flogging Mollies, Dropkick Murphys, to Louis Armstrong, Ella Fitzgerald, Billy Holiday, Frank Sinatra, Emma Shapplin, Pavarotti, Bach and Tchaikovsky. Blues, Jazz, Electro-Swing, Radiohead, U2, Jack Johnson, Israel Kamakawiwo'ole, The Beastie Boys, ACDC, and sometimes, even bluegrass.

I've been called a foodie. There's some awesome pizza in Seattle ( love Serious Pie), Indian/Tibetan, Thai, Mexican, Sushi, Chinese, and I'll try something new anytime! I love cooking yummy healthy meals at home whenever I can. I have a love affair with really thick balsamic and put it on everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good book
Good coffee in the morning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time contemplating what I believe, what I want, what I will or won't do, and how I feel about just about everything. I love to regularly challenge my own pre-conceived ideas as I find my feelings about so many things have changed over time...and I am sure they will continue to evolve. In my 20s I was too uptight and shy to ever consider the way I'm now living my life in such a sexually explorative way. I'm so glad that I decided to take some chances and stopped letting fear get in my way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? I had to google it. I don't do typical. What I do do (no pun there) is amazing. Inventive. Diabolical, even. And then there's Netflix :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My favorite color is purple and I can really appreciate a good camel toe. I was a young republican in my misspent youth but have grown to see the light.
You should message me if
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You haven't run away yet to hide in your pillow fort.

You're geeky, can write complete sentences with proper punctuation, like to watch anime (including family guy), open to foreign films on occasion.

You're open to new ideas and relationships.

You're kinky or a fan of 50 shades :)

You like spend a significant amount of time smiling at dumb things, and own at least one item with Hello Kitty on it.