I prefer to engage with open minded people who aren't afraid to try something different, something that may have only existed in their dreams. I used to fantasize a lot. I was married and she didn't share my interests. When she took off with her coworker, I stopped fantasizing, I started a new life. And I haven't looked back.
I'm still very much who I was. A gentleman. Caring, kind, compassionate, respectful. I go out of my way to help people I care about. And some I don't. I have some loyalty issues. When someone earns my loyalty, it's for life if they don't abuse it... It really fucks my world when they do abuse it.
Newly single a few years ago, looking for something more, a sense of where I belonged, I found leather, in the leather and fetish communities in Honolulu and became a big part of that scene during my time there.
I moved to the Seattle area in May '12 and quickly got involved with the leather and kink communities here.
What is leather? Leather is a code of ethics that promotes honor, integrity, tradition and respect. It's about accepting and celebrating who we are with pride. Bonding with and accepting others for their identities, orientations and choices. It's about looking out for one another. It's about community. It's about spirituality. And yes, it's about kink and really fucking great violent sex.
In leather, I'm a rope top. I lay beautiful rope in wraps and knots upon flesh and paint a beautiful scene. I practice the arts of Shibari and Kinbaku, creating stunning works that serve a purpose beyond art, and beyond sex. I perform rope suspensions, wrapping a girl (or boy) up and hoist them aloft, several feet off the ground to swing around and even fly. I play with and harness reiki energies in rope scenes and thrive on the energies that we create together. Rope connects us.
Rope is my art and my foreplay. It's my path to spiritual enlightenment. My path to happiness. And I'd like to share it with you.
I love a few other things including thuddy floggers, and a range of sensation play. I am Dominant in my relationships and enjoy being served by a good girl who wants to earn my appreciation and kindness.
Come do something beautiful with me. Come feel alive. Come to the dark side. We have cookies.
I am STD free and always practice safer sex. But it isn't really about sex.