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43 Renton, WA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Science / Engineering
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I just moved to Renton with a bunch of friends in an eclectic house.

I’m Sex Positive, kinky, part of a leather community and open to poly. I'm unlike anyone you'll ever meet. I'm even unlike all the other people who say they're unlike anyone you've ever met. Yep, I'm not like them at all!

I'm on the lookout for my best friend and lover. I'm pretty sure she's a geeky girly girl or tomboy; might even have a dorky laugh. Or, that's what the gypsy fortune teller told me. I hope she was right, because I'm a hopeless romantic. And the magic 8 ball keeps saying try again later.

I'm a transplant from The Bronx by way of a few other places. I have an Irish lilt mixed with an unmistakable NY accent.

I’m kind of goofy and ridiculous, pretty good at being awkward. I have a Ph.D. in sarcasm and smart-assery; I like to laugh and poke fun. At everything. Life is serious enough all by itself. I'm happy being me, like a square peg in a round world.

I'm spiritual, not religious. I live by a moral code of decency and honesty, follow my own compass.

I’m honest to a fault, the east coast variety - not the passive aggressive PNW kind. I'm sweet, affectionate and caring. I flirt a lot. I'm a sucker for romance. I'm mean. And I'm nice. I'm an advocate for affirmative consent, LGBTQ equality, and social justice.

I’m drawn to people who are intelligent, funny and perverted. . I'm less interested in what you have between your legs - more, what's between your ears.

I am involved with a BDSM lifestyle and scene in the Seattle area. I play with Chakra energies and I do a lot with rope. I'm Dominant and really enjoy doing consensually mean things to nice people.

Briggs Meyers ISFP-A
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm doing everything I'd like to be doing with my life right now. I build and service specialty access control systems. It's some really cool tech.

I also build and service custom security systems for financial institutions (and no, I'm not a good guy to know when planning your next bank robbery).

I moved to Seattle after a decade in Hawaii, a couple of years in Italy, a decade around Virginia Beach, and a misspent youth in The Bronx, NYC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at dreaming up creative ways to have more fun in my life. I have a job that challenges me (my sanity, actually) every day. I'm always on the run and plans change a lot. I just go with it... things tend to end up in good places.

Planning my next tattoo, a large piece on my back. I have four on my arms that hold a lot of meaning to me.

I like cooking but somehow have gotten really good at finding new ways to burn myself on the stove. Salmon is supposed to taste like charred pork, right?

Laughing at dumb jokes (and telling them).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I'm wearing short sleeves, my tattoos. My eyes and eyebrows twinkle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some others I like are..
Pulp Fiction
Boondock Saints
The Secretary
A Clockwork Orange
Office Space
Natural Born Killers
How to train your dragon
Shaun of the Dead
The Fifth Element
Monty Python.
I'll watch anything with someone. If it sucks, we can go MST3000 on it.

The Dubliners
Dropkick Murphys
Dinah Washington
Billie Holiday
Frank Sinatra
Blues, Jazz,
Jack Johnson
The Beastie Boys
I really like 1920s swing music and especially good ElectroSwing.
I host and DJ a party every month in Seattle called SwingEasy.

And pretty much anything home cooked.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My optimism
Great friends
A delicious cup of tea
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lao Tzu said 'Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is Enlightenment.' I spend a lot of time contemplating what I believe, what I want, what I will or won't do, and how I feel about everything.

I regularly challenge my own pre-conceived notions as I find my feelings about so many things have changed over time... and I am sure they will continue to evolve.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not still working, I'll be out with friends or getting things ready for whatever we're doing on Saturday. Or playing with my snakes and watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I kissed a boy and I liked it.

I have a Guinness tattoo on my forearm; I've recently become allergic to yeast. FML!
You should message me if
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You're bold, straightforward, honest and have a sense of humor.

You're emotionally available and looking for something with potential for a longterm relationship.

You're not into playing games. I'm not into this to break a heart; yours or my own.

You're more than a little Kinky; curious or interested in D/s, DD/lg. Bonus if you like rope. Bigger bonus if you like spankings.

Please don't if you're racist, sexist; homophobic, transphobic; into slut-shaming, body-shaming; ageism, ableism.

Definitely don't if you're a smoker. Vape is ok.

No republicans, or if God is listed in your 'six things.'