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29 F Colorado Springs, CO

I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 21
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am (a)…
29, 5’2”, 31-24-36, American, animal nutrition specialist, artistic, atheist, average, beautiful, bisexual, blue-eyed, bookworm, brunette, careful, cashier, cat-lover, center-brained, centrist, cheerful, college graduate, Colorado native, committed, compassionate, competitive, creative, customer adviser, cute, dancer, daughter, daydreamer, determined, English, Entrepreneur, ever-learning, female, flirt, friendly, fun-lover, gamer, geek, Gemini, generous, German, girl next door, granddaughter, happy, helpful, high-school graduate, hippie, idealist, independent, intellectual, Irish, jack-of-all trades, kind, Lord of the Rings fanatic, Manitoid, musician, nerd, night-owl, neutral, lover, open-minded, optimist, organized, passionate, peace keeper, physically handicapped, picky, rationalist, reader, resilient, romantic, sapiosexual, Seminole, sensitive, sexual, short, shy, sister, skeptic, social, stoner, submissive, tattooed, tease, technical, traveler, Unitarian, vocalist, white…

I value open-mindedness, intelligence, laughter, compassion, nerdiness, creativity, and honesty. I've met some amazing people on this website and I would like to leave the door open for others. I love just chatting with people on here, sharing interests and experiences from all over the map.

If we really click after chatting on here for a while and you want to go out with me, you should be open to the possibility of forming a non-exclusive, emotionally rich relationship. I am poly, my partner of 8ish years, benparker05 is poly. I truly believe that no one person can or will fulfill all of another's wants, needs, or desires completely. This is the reason that so many couples don't make it and many people start cheating, needs aren't being met. Plus, we are very sexually active and want to have fun and live life to the fullest, without hindrances. This however does not mean that my partner and I share our other partners, it sometimes happens, but rarely. We also discuss openly information about all our partners. If you are not ok with this arrangement, then maybe we should just be friends. But, friendship is always a great place to start and whatever comes from it, happens ;-)
What I’m doing with my life
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At the moment, I'm working as a manager at a pet store. I love working with animals and I love the people I work with. However, one day I would love to have my own business.

Ever-learning. I try to appreciate everything I can about the world around me. I love learning, however I keep changing my mind about what I want to learn (Anthropology, Business, Computer, Art, Dance, Library Science)... I have my Associate of Arts degree (Anthropology major) from PPCC & I've gone to UCCS for my Bachelors degree with a major in Pre-Business (Entrepreneur).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I’m good at: Art, Ballroom Dancing, Board & Card Games, Some Computer & Video Games, Computer Work, Drawing, Listening, Organization, Photoshop, Singing, Web/Graphic Design…

I Enjoy: 4-wheeling, ATVing, Belly Dancing, Bowling, Camping, Choir, Hanging out with Friends, Hiking, Mary Jane, Movies, Piano, Pool, Rain & Thunderstorms, Reading, Renaissance Festivals, Sleeping & Dreaming, Zumba…

My Interests: Animals, Ancient History (Pre-History to Renaissance), Anthropology, Art, Books, Computers, Evolution Theory, Fantasy, Genealogy, Historical Fiction, Ireland/Celtic, Movies, Music, Mythology, Philosophy, Photography...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically: My Blue Eyes, My Shortness, and My Ass... LoL. Oh, & everyone seems to think I'm younger then I am.

Mentally: My Openness to Ideas & Beliefs… Optimism…
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Sword of Truth Series by Terry Goodkind, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy by JRR Tolkien, The Sevenwaters Series by Juliet Marillier, and A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle…

Movies: 10th Kingdom, 10 Things I Hate About You, 28 Days, 40-Year-Old Virgin, Armageddon, Back to the Future, Batman The Dark Knight, Beetlejuice, Braveheart, Bruce Almighty, Captain Ron, Casanova, Cats, Dances with Wolves, Dark Crystal, Dead Poets Society, Dirty Dancing, most Disney movies, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog, Dracula: Dead and Loving It, Dogma, Don Juan DeMarco, Enchanted, Eurotrip, Ever After, Fiddler on the Roof, Fifth Element, Ghost, Gladiator, Grease, History of the World: Part 1, Hitch, Hocus Pocus, Hobbit, Hook, Horrible Bosses, Indiana Jones, Interview with a Vampire, Iron Man, The Island, Knight's Tale, Labyrinth, Les Misérables, Liar Liar, Lord of the Rings, Mamma Mia!, Mask of Zorro, Meet Joe Black, Merlin, Monty Python (Holy Grail, Life of Brian & Meaning of Life), Moulin Rouge, Miss Congeniality, Mr. & Mrs. Smith, Mrs. Doubtfire, NeverEnding Story, Nine, Noises Off, Office Space, Phantom of the Opera, Pirates of the Caribbean, Practical Magic, Princess Bride, P.S. I Love You, Rent, Robin Hood (Disney version), Robin Hood Men in Tights, Robin Hood Prince of Thieves, Serenity, Shrek, Star Trek, Star Wars, Sweeney Todd, Taken, Thor, Underworld, Van Wilder, What Dreams May Come, What Women Want, Willow, X-men, Yes Man...

TV: Avatar: The Last Airbender, Big Bang Theory, Dollhouse, Firefly, Friends, Game of Thrones, The Guild, Heroes, House, How I Met Your Mother, How It's Made, I Love Lucy, Legend of the Seeker, Moonlight, MythBusters, Pen & Teller BS, Scrubs, Sex in the City, Sherlock, Smallville, Stargate, That 70's Show, True Blood, The Tudors, The Vampire Diaries, Warehouse 13, Weeds, Whose Line Is It Anyway?, Xena...

Music: +44, Blink 182, Chumbawamba, Disney, The Eagles, Elton John, Enya, Evanescence, Lily Allen, Lindsey Stirling, Michael Buble, Muse, Nickel Creek, Queen, Spiderbait, Train, +++ and a lot of different Soundtracks...

Games: Age of Empires, Battleship, Chess, Clue, Diddy Kong Racing, Dragon Age I & II, Fable I & II & III, Fluxx, Lords of Waterdeep, Magic the Gathering, MarioKart, Mario Party, Monopoly, Poker, Risk, Skyrim, Super Mario 64, Zelda: A Link to the Past, Zelda: Majora's Mask, Zelda: Ocarina of Time, ...

Food: Apples, Mandarin Oranges, Steak, Game Hens, Pasta, Tuna, Cheese, Mushrooms, Salads, Lobster, Snow Crab Legs, Sunflower Seeds, Mixed Nuts, Smart Pop, Cheez-its…

Alcoholic: Sex on the Beach, Caramel Appletini, Strawberry Daiquiri, Captain Morgan’s Mango Rum, White Moscato Wine, Fireball Whisky...

Non-Alcoholic: Chi Tea, Sweet Tea, Hot Herbal Teas, Ice Tea, Orange Juice, Apple Juice, Mt. Dew (Regular or Code Red), Dr. Pepper, Root Beer, Cream Soda, Water.

Other: I am 420 friendly and I smoke most nights to help me sleep (major insomniac) or socially when people are over. I only drink socially, don't get the purpose of drinking alone. I do have a problem with cigarettes, smells bad, bad breath, and screws with peoples attitudes. Sorry but its a deal breaker for me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends Family Love Passion Happiness Sex
Cell Phone
My Car
A Good Book
My Gerber Pocketknife
Wristwatch ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love - What I Want & How To Get It & Keep It...
Guys & Girls - Wants Regrets Needs Passions & Disappointments
Life – What Am I Doing & Where Is This Going?
Career – Where, What, How?
Living to the Fullest Everyday
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Snuggling watching something on Netflix, having a party with lots of friends, seeing movies, playing video games...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As much as I want to flirt, I'm shy & I'm really bad at vocal flirting...

I've been called a brat on multiple occasions. I want to have my cake and eat it too.

I was born with Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis (NO not like old people) and diagnosed when I was a lil over a year old. It's a auto immune disease, basically my white blood cells hate each other and like to attack one another. Some days are worse then others but usually the only thing that this limits me on is sports and extremely physical activities. The good points in the whole thing is I got to skip Gym as a kid, didn't have to copy as many notes and I get a handicap sticker :-)
You should message me if
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If you read something above that sparked your interest about me & you wanna chat and get to know me better and then we can see what happens next...