You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more.
You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement.
They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.
There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all.
A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible.
You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end.
Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
― Bob Marley
"It seemed an advantage to be traveling alone. Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others...Being closely observed by a companion can also inhibit our observation of others; then, too, we may become caught up in adjusting ourselves to the companion's questions and remarks, or feel the need to make ourselves seem more normal than is good for our curiosity.”
― Alain de Botton, The Art of Travel
In my travels I have dwindled down a long list of traveling companions.
I found myself traveling alone and Loving Life to the fullest because of the time that I had with this beautiful Planet and Myself with nobody around to ruin it.
But once you return from Nature, you realize that part of nature is being with another human being and mixing the travels with the right companion.
I am not trying to say that I have not enjoyed the hell out of my single Life, but I am most definitely ready to start dating again.
The whole point of being in a relationship is to be able to "relate" to the person that you are interested in.
I Love the outdoors more than anything and I would like to find a lady that is down for the same cause.
Experiencing that kind of beauty with somebody that you find yourself on the exact same page with is the whole point of being in a relationship.
After all, the main reason that we are all on a dating site is because the messed up scene that we find ourselves in is not enough of a branch out to connect with other people that live so close by that you might never get a chance to meet.
Good Luck to everybody on that point I suppose...HaHA.
WHAT I LOOK FOR IN A WOMAN:
Bottom Line: I would like to find a Woman who is the ultimate chameleon.
-I want a lady who stands out from the crowd…..someone who is not afraid to congregate in any situation and is always able to find the best in any situation that she is put in to.
-I want a woman that can make me laugh as much as I can keep her entertained, which believe me when I tell you is normally a 24/7 thing. I can give you witty banter all day long.
-Dancing and Music is a huge part of my Life and I would like to find someone who shares those interests before even trying to delve into getting to know you further.
EDM is my top music of choice and is one of MY biggest turn-on’s when a woman enjoys the same genres and knows how to get down to.
-Disclaimer: I can dance my ass off!!!!
I don’t want someone who parties all the time, but is down for the cause when we do.....I want a woman who knows how to act like a well-rounded lady…..but can still party with me till the rise of dawn if the situation called for it.
I am a confident, caring, and very compassionate person.
I am a very sarcastic person who enjoys to laugh.
I am a better dancer then most people and I am very good with my hands.
Irish by nature, witty by good genes, and a very kind heart that goes a long way for other people.