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Irishsoul23

39 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's see how many people actually read this.....

I'm here on a whim with no expectations. Now, usually when I describe myself I leave this part out because it's a circumstance of my life rather than a personality attribute, or defining factor. However I did not mention this on another site and...when it was revealed (although it was never really hidden,) it changed things for a lot of people...sadly. So in the interest of full disclosure I should say, I am in a wheelchair. I am not paralyzed, or ill, or frail. My disability is not passed on. I live independently with some assistance at times. I lead a very active normal life. I'm out ALOT, have tons of friends, I'm bright, funny, fit and charismatic. My disability and the wheelchair should really have no impact. Sadly, I find most women assume and fear a lot of things because of it. I am well liked. and enjoy a good deal of female attention but..the great majority never view me as an "intimate option" because of those fears and assumptions. I am NOT here solely looking for sex but I will say now, I AM fully capable and dare I say...I've a lot to offer. I'd just like to be regarded as a sensual sexual, capable being and, have that element be present with someone along with the other facets of a relationship. I have spent too long being treated like nothing works etc.I'm not looking for a nurse nor caregiver, I am looking to be seen as complete, capable and desirable. This is more than I ever discuss my situation but...if it helps people get past it then, great.

Now that that's out of the way I'll tell you about me. I'm a thinker and I'm quick with a clever comment. My life has had challenges but in some ways it has also granted me great perspective. I'm wise enough to know, that even with my life as it is, I've been very lucky. People say I'm positive but I think I'm just more aware of how good I have it. Life isn't a Disney movie and ya...some days will crush you. I'm under no illusions, but I'm not dismal either.

I care very much about how I look and am perceived. I do all I can to shatter any preconceptions that come with my situation. That's not to say I'm overly vain. I just realize in my situation, the more ways I can make people take notice, the better. My humour is also key to me and along with my intellect has been my greatest asset and weapon. I'm a laid back guy but, It's important to me that my intellect be apparent.

I'm a solid friend, and a man of principle. I value my upbringing and the manners it acquitted me with. I can be the life of the party and seem larger than life but....I'm just as capable of retreating and being a great listener. I give good advice but could do with taking my own!

I'm still waiting for society at large to live up to what it professes. I'm eager for the day the same women that marvel over me and say how great I am start attaching intent to their words and amaze me. I'm here to see if anyone takes up the challenge!

I'm very into music. I love going to live shows. I've done my "clubbing days" but, still frequent live venues. I just redid my apartment so, staying home holds fresh appeal. I do love being social but....I'd love to have someone to stay in with.

I write. I'm less passionate about it than my ability would suggest but, people seem to really respond when I set to it. I'm big into physical activity and come next spring am set to try my hand at adapted rowing.

I'm looking for a woman that wants me but...doesn't necessarily need me. I want a women I like, beyond the attraction, but attraction should definitely be present. Intellect is sexy, so is humour. I want a woman that is secure with herself but can let me take the lead when needed. I want a woman that see's past the crap most get stuck on and who, can leave me utterly impressed.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a freelance writer. I also have an extensive background in public speaking and work with disabled kids. I have done some TV work as well as some modelling. I am currently considering a return to post secondary education
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Expressing myself
- Making people laugh
- I get great parking
-keeping my shoes looking new
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hope it's my face. Being in a chair, you always hope something ELSE strikes people first. I do get noticed a fair bit so...maybe it IS my face?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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U2, Zepplin, Hendrix, Sinatra, Depeche Mode, Beastie Boys, Guns N Roses, old Metallica, Pearl Jam, Jay Z, The clash, Smiths, White Stripes, Kings of Leon, Rage against the Machine, Miles Davis, Coltrane, Elvis, Johnny Cash, Nine Inch Nails, Filter, Clapton, Mumford and Sons, Eminem, Faith no More, Soundgarden, and so much more..literally a bit of everything.

I love Italian food. I love steak and mashed potatoes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends. I have an amazing array of people in my life.

2. music. It's always on

3. My computer and internet

4. The Summer. I love the sun and heat

5 Mashed potatoes...it's an Irish thing

6. my sense of humour
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life in general. Priorities, what matters what doesn't. I think about how key perspective is in life. I also reflect a lot on how I perceived and the mark I leave on people
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out on the town with friends. I'm ready for that to change but...until I have reason to stay home, I'll be out with people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The worst thing about being in a wheelchair is NOT the not walking. In my case, it's that I have a surprisingly nice ass and...no one gets to see it!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You are attractive, bright, fun, social, active, open minded