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45 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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Yesterday – 9:08pm
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
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Entertainment / Media
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Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I walk quietly on hardwood floors, chew with my mouth closed, polite, respectful, silly, dreamer. I like to give people benefit of the doubt, but I do question the quality of character of those who litter and/or don't tip their servers.

In a forum, where self promotion is encouraged, it seems quite easy to paint ourselves in the best light possible. With that in mind, I think it only fair to share a few of the less desirable traits as well...hopefully without spoiling some of the mystique...

-I'm kind of a night owl.
-I will be 10 to 15 minutes late for my own funeral.
-Not afraid at all to share my opinion about music which can be frustrating because I like some truly terrible stuff.
-I'm afflicted with "NTS" or Nocturnal Tourette's Syndrome, where I punch, kick and scream in my sleep.
-Okay, so I was joking about the sleepy time Tourette's thing but I have been known to snore on a couple of rare occasions.
What I’m doing with my life
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I mostly enjoy what I do to keep a roof over my head but my occupation is not my defining factor. I work to live not vice versa. The biggest perk of my job is that it affords me the means and more importantly the flexibility and time to pursue what I AM passionate about: traveling, music, graphic arts and design, diving, swimming, bicycling, learning etc. Striving for adventure over routine.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1) modesty...see below

2) irony...see above
The first things people usually notice about me
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Short, darkish and handsome.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Christopher Moore's novels.
The 33 & a 1/3 series of books.
Samuel Clemens.
Periodically, I'll read a magazine.

Motion pictures (talkies):
Breaking Away is my favorite movie, "UP" made my eyeballs sweaty. I'm certain that I am not in the minority for enjoying most W. Anderson, Kubrick and Cohen brother films

I have commitment issues with my TV and can't seem to settle down and watch a whole series of anything be it Game of thrones, Breaking Bad or whatever... I do love me some Archer though.

I enjoy Chopin's "Preludes No. 15 in D flat major" and "Paula and Janet" by Too Short... maybe a couple things in-between.

I like vegetables fresh and raw, have a dislike for mayonaise so much that I have trouble spelling it correctly... My refrigerator usually always contains parmigiano reggiano, carrot juice, lemon yogurt, chocolate sauce and a pound or two of Bicycle coffee....I recognize the potential for this to be a deal breaker but I don't like sushi... don't judge my pedestrian pallet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family, a sense of humor, curiosity, music, a lot of sleep and my bicycle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Aside from the honest and obvious answer, I spend a lot of time thinking about aesthetics, both natural and designed, music, simplifying my life and how connected my long term memory is with my sense of smell.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love that dirty bass music.
You should message me if
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you were offended by the sight of my butt crack. or not.