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IshtarL

61 F Woodland Hills, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:39am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am passionate about LIFE, Love, Family, Friendship, Cats, Science Fiction, Metaphysics, and Personal Empowerment of all kinds. I am passionate about making love with someone special when the relationship has reached a point to include such intimacy. Though bisexual, I have a preference for men. I have been involved in Polyamory all my adult life. I lead Live the Dream, a nest of Church of All Worlds.

I live the lifestyles Robert Heinlein and Robert Rimmer have written about as well as providing education and support to others living this way or wanting to learn more about it.
I seek a primary life mate to be with in an open committed relationship.

I don't smoke and my match must be a non-smoker.

I believe in reaching my highest potential by helping others to reach theirs. I've been "lucky" enough to be able to make a successful career of that.

My favorite outings are week end get aways to Santa Barbarra and Solvang, picnics in Angeles Forest, going to Descanso Gardens and the Huntington. I enjoy vacations in Big Sur, Yosemite, the Grand Canyon and anywhere I can hug Big trees. Ocean views and fireplaces delight me.

I enjoy riding a motor cycle to mountains, along the coast and to other beautiful places with a man who knows how doing the driving. I have helmet, jacket and boots to do this right. Horseback riding and boating are fun, too. Doing any of these is not a requirement--just a possibility.

I've been to Europe, cruised to Alaska and look forward to discovering other fascinating places with YOU. Let's share some JOY!

I am Successful, Affectionate, and love Sci Fi.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a hypnotherapist (since 1969) who helps other hypnotherapists and healers of all kinds to build their practices. I popularized telephone hypnosis and work mostly from my home. I love what I do.

I am also a 4th generation match maker and director of California's oldest match making service, Marriage Minded.

I have a good relationship and spend family time with my grown children and grand children (22 yrs, 14 yrs, 3 yrs and 5 year old). I have three cats. I love the kids and the cats.
I’m really good at
Communication, hypnotherapy, business and relationship coaching, and bringing pleasure to my partner in ways ranging from love making and cooking to surprise gifts and special outing.
The first things people usually notice about me
My long hair, my outgoing personality and the fact that I really care about the people in my life and do what I can to make them feel good about themselves and to bring them joy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are Stranger in a Strange Land, The Moon is a Harsh Mistress and Time Enough for Love. I also enjoyed Calahan's Crosstime Saloon and all the Calahan books.
My favorite authors are Robert A. Heinlein, Ayn Rand, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Spider Robinson, Robert Rimmer, Wayne Dyer, Neale Donald Walsch and Tony Robbins. I am actively involved in science fiction fandom including filk --folk songs (parodies and originals) about SF themes and the space program.
My favorite tv shows are Star Trek in all its incarnations, Babylon Five and Defiance. I love Broadway musicals such as Camelot, Hello Dolly, and The Happiest Millionaire.
I also enjoy folk music of all kinds but especially Jewish and Irish. Country music, the Beatles, Big Band, progressive Jazz and classical are good, too. I go every year to Renaissance Pleasure Faire at least once--I enjoy that kind of music, too. Live theater, movies (out or on video) and fine/ethnic and unusual dining are fun.

I'd love to discover new wonderful things to share together which are YOUR passions.
The six things I could never do without
My family... Cuddling... Great Sex with someone I love...New things to learn...Close friendships ...My cats...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Love, love making and the partner I could enjoy it with. Ways to better help my clients and the hypnotists who choose to learn from me. New ways to help others and make a lot of money in the process. Things I would enjoy doing with children and grandchildren.
Heinlein, hypnotherapy, psychology, metaphysics, success, judaism , affection, biking , Catalina , cat lover. CAW, concerts, cuddling, cycling, Disneyland , enlightenment, filk, fireplaces, healing, marketing
On a typical Friday night I am
I go to services about once a month including holidays at Makom Ohr Shalom--Jewish Renewal Movement. I go for the Joy of it. I light candles and say blessings on the Friday nights I am at home (rather than working a trade show or going out). My home made chicken soup has gotten rave reviews.

On other Friday nights, I may be doing anything from leading a hypnosis demonstration or sensuality workshop at a New Age show to enjoying a concert at the Hollywood Bowl.
I could also be giving someone special a loving back rub...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Affection at frequent and unexpected moments is the best aphrodisiac.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 49–63
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are passionate about Life, Love (including love making with someone special and especially CUDDLING) and about something that is special to you--your profession, a hobby, something which helps you to Make a Difference.
You are open to a deeply loving, long term PRIMARY live in relationship with a Poly woman.
You enjoy science fiction.
You are Jewish, pagan or spiritual.
Note:Couple may be acceptable if a long term residential triad is what you seek.