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Island_Wanderer

35 / M / Straight / Single

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:14pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a lover of life and I live each day to experience it in abundance. My deepest intentions for my life are about connecting with others and seeing where we overlap. I value honesty and integrity and embrace those values with a fierce love.

I'm intelligent, funny, genuine, silly, fiercely loyal, kind, caring, creative, artistic, witty, a little bit geeky, bold, ridiculous, and well... you'll see. I prefer a quiet pub to a noisy club.

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What am I looking for?

A companion, a partner, someone to do all the fun couple-ey things with - and if it makes sense to us, then I am also open to more.

Also, right now I'm taking some time to pursue my goal of becoming a screenwriter, and while that is not what brought me to okcupid, it is what's keeping me here.

I am seeking other writer-types who would be interested in meeting occasionally or regularly (either one on one or in a small group setting), to share ideas, offer insights/feedback and be mutual sounding boards for one another's work. I don't think this should be limited to the genre or writing medium. Certainly I'm not concerned about whether you intend to write professionally, or if it's simply a hobby.

It's not that I don't have 'ideas', in fact, I usually have them in abundance. I just value feedback and connecting creatively to help keep my monkey mind focused, and figured there must be others out there who have similar goals.

If this sounds like you, or something you (or someone you know) would value, please message me, especially if I've added you to my favourites or rated you highly. It's my subtle little way of saying hello, or bookmarking you to remind me to say hello later ;)
What I’m doing with my life
For the next few months of the forseeable future, I get paid to work with and empower teenagers, and I also serve tables (singing lots of happy birthday songs).
I love to climb and I am a volunteer belayer at the local climbing gym.
I sing in choirs for fun. I just finished singing in an amazing gospel choir which opened my eyes to new possibilities for how to be, and where my voice comes from.
I go swing dancing several nights a week. It's my new hobby. I also play my guitar on city streets for fun.
I’m really good at
always becoming more self-aware, reflecting on my life with honesty, leading campfire music jams, trying things I once thought I hated and discovering I love them, and astonishing others by remembering random details about past experiences.

I am remembering how much I love writing. I am in a quarter-life renaissance. I am currently working on two screenplays and I just began conceiving the idea for a third one tonight.
The first things people usually notice about me
my killer abs... Just kidding, my youthful glow. People often peg me as being about 26.

I don't mind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
If you really want to break it down, go here:
http://listography.com/wanderer

Or if you just want the shorthand... scroll down

What I like...
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BOOKS: Here's one that will always be #1...
"'People have forgotten this truth,' said the fox. 'But you must not forget. You become responsible, for ever, for what you have tamed. You are responsible for your rose.'
'I am responsible for my rose ...' the little prince repeated, so as to remember. " - The Little Prince, Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
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MOVIES: I love movies... I want to write and direct them. So I spend a lot of time watching them.

"Get busy living, or get busy dying" * "As you wish." * "She said the answer is... "Every day." What did you ask?" -- Do I make her proud?". * "Away from the things of man, my love. Away from the things of man." * "My friends... You bow to no one." * "Charlie, we accept the love we think we deserve."
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Clementine: This is it, Joel. It's going to be gone soon
Joel: I know.
Clementine: What do we do?
Joel: Enjoy it.
* * * * * * * * *
Not to mention "What The Bleep Do We Know, Up, lots of others...
I just finished watching "Warm Bodies" and I think it is my favorite film so far of 2013. My favorite films of 2012 include "Moonrise Kingdom", "Les Miserables" and "Seeking a Friend for the End of the World".
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SHOWS: I don't try to make a habit out of watching television. I download shows intentionally. I am NOT a couch potato. I AM a hardcore fan of anything Whedonesque, and that absolutely includes Buffy and Firefly. I loved every moment of Lost, and I am hanging on every episode of HIMYM. Other shows I enjoy, in no particular order: Once Upon A Time, The Walking Dead, New Girl, South Park, Glee, Parks & Rec, The Big Bang Theory, Fringe, Community and SNL.

Believe me, with my life, I need to schedule time to even keep up with these shows. It would be better to have someone to cuddle with while watching some of these.
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MUSIC: Shockingly, like so many others on here, I love music. I guess if I had to classify, I listen to indie-rock and folk. Dan Mangan, Edward Sharpe, Of Monsters & Men, Blue Rodeo, Imagine Dragons, Dar Williams, Jeremy Fisher and The Civil Wars being the most played these days. I also have a soft spot for anything New Wave (80's), and the cheesy pop songs of the 70's.
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FOOD: sushi, Indian, Mexican, pasta (as long as it's tomato-ey), vegetarian chili, huevos rancheros, chai lattes, milkshakes, and ice cream
The six things I could never do without
my guitar
my family (the one I was born with, and the ones I call friend).
an amazing pillow
music
stories
self-honesty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where I'll be in 5 years, and how I can use today to make sense of tomorrow.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You want new movie friends
You want someone to make music with
You want to learn to swing dance (or can teach me new moves)
You want to go climbing, hiking, traveling with... or otherwise
You want someone to watch marathons of good television with
You want to take a road trip with someone awesome and fun
You are intrigued.