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45 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a hard working person but like to play more that I work. I am happy with my life but am always trying to better myself.

I am brutally honest, caring, understanding, romantic and loyal.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a professional piano player and teacher. I am a songwriter hoping to have success being published. I spend time in my studio writing and recording original songs to pitch to record labels and publishers.

I am also an independent handyman doing contract renovations on homes and sailboats.

In summer I like to spend a lot of time sailing and racing my boat and hanging out on the water.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing the piano
Teaching piano lessons
Wine and scotch tasting
Fixing things
Building things
Telling a story
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favourite movies include Blade Runner, Dr. Strangelove, Spinal Tap, The Blues Brothers and The Thing.

Favourite music includes Classical, Progressive Rock, and Rock. Being a musician I also listen to and appreciate other styles like some types of Jazz and Opera.

Favourite foods include Pizza, Sushi, and anything on a BBQ (except shellfish!) I am not a picky eater and will try anything once, but I am in love with edible animals. I really try to eat right. I really like being healthy.

I enjoy wine, mostly French (Bordeaux, Burgundy and Champagne), Scotch whiskey, mainly Islay single malts, and of course beer (the expensive stuff unfortunately). Over the years I have developed a great respect for good spirits.

I like to read books about sailing adventures, spy novels and books about interesting people. I am currently reading "Sailing Racing Tactics" in preparation for this summers racing season.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A piano, a sailboat, sunshine, a car (unless I'm in the middle of the ocean and then I'll take a water maker), cartoons, good spirits.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Songs I want to write and places I'd like to sail to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a good drink with good friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
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You should message me if
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Message me if you're looking for a good man for a long term relationship. You like being outdoors, hopefully sailing, and love music.
You also enjoy romance and sexy fun!