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29 M Mesquite, TX

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6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Identity is purpose strung together by memory. We choose the path we walk, and with every step we don't just discover ourselves, we become ourselves. I know myself because I chose who I become. But that's not all the sets me apart from the rest of the thinking meat.

Broad sweeping labels seem to be the fastest way to convey large chunks of our personal identity, although people are not labels, I do identify somewhat with the following: Atheist, liberal, feminist, nerd. My nerdom encompasses many different interests from science fiction to science fact, from anime to philosophy. If it's nerdy and doesn't require that I have large muscles dripping with testosterone, then I probably enjoy it.

Now for what I'm looking to get out of this site. Firstly, I could always use more friends. I do want more than that, but I'm not going to put the burden of being THE ONE on, or immediately dive into the bed of, someone I've just met. Some would say that this puts me in risk of landing in the friend-zone, but I say it's the only sane way to go about this. I don't believe in the friend-zone anyway (attraction to a person does not confer a right to that person).
What I’m doing with my life
I just finished a major project, illustrating a zombie related children's book. I actually just reached another milestone, and began the fundraiser for the impending launch. Other than that, I'm just paying the bills (which now includes a mortgage on my new house! Yay!) while trying to keep things fun and interesting in the meantime.
I’m really good at
All the thinky things, reaching the top shelf, listening, taking criticism, making you laugh, being really flexible and making subtle... and not so subtle euphemisms.
The first things people usually notice about me
Secondary sex characteristics? I've been told that I look like a pretty girl from behind... or Jesus... or Frank Zappa... or a cartoon villain... or Rasputin (my personal favorite)... or like I know a lot about astral projection (the strangest one so far). What amuses me most about this is the implication that Jesus could be said to look like a sorcerous feminine villainous rock star. That just makes my heathen heart smile. At the same time, however, it kind of bothers me that for some people, apparently "skinny with long hair" equates to "looks like a pretty girl".

Beyond that: my smile, wit, sense of humor, my incredibly slender frame, my gorgeous curly locks and the fact that I sit like a complete goober due to the fact that apparently there's not enough meat on my posterior sitting surface caused by a a chronic case of no-butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Death Gate Cycles and Harry Potter, anything related to science or philosophy. I once read Kant's Metaphysics of Morals by choice (which probably speaks more to my masochism rather than philosophical interest). I also HATE twilight (was forced to listen to the entire series on tape). I'm just not a big fan of plotless Mormon abstinence porn.

Movies: Rocky Horror Picture Show, Fight Club, Ricochet, Hellboy, Dark City, The Dark Crystal, Labyrinth, Willow, Legend, and the list goes on.

Shows: Jon Stewart, the Atheist Experience, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Battlestar Galactica and all the Anime. Not really, but indeed quite a bit of it.

Music: I like a wide range of music. I find that I don't enjoy much rap or country, otherwise I love everything from rock to metal, classical to pop, Native American to Japanese to Celtic. You name it. Good music is just good music.

Food: yes (although you couldn't tell by looking at me). I especially like Italian and Asian. I stay away from sugar, dairy and tomatoes because I don't react well to any of those, but otherwise it's all good. My absolute favorite is Filipino food. My heart has an entrance reserved specifically for people who bring adobo and lumpia.
The six things I could never do without
My computer
the internet
constant thought
my friends
smart phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything. There are no boundaries within which my thinking parts are limited. I'm all over the damn place. One moment I might be grappling with a tough philosophical question, the next I might be making a poop joke. The hard part is trying to stop thinking so that I can sleep.
On a typical Friday night I am
not doing much. I'm probably hanging out with friends, watching movies or working on one of my many projects. I'm a bit of a home body. Most of the action happens on the weekends, that's when I play tabletop RPGs with friends. Also, occasionally throughout the week, there will be a meetup going on that I'll attend. I actually run a local philosophy discussion group that meets twice a month.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really don't keep much private I'm an open book. But I can't just spill my guts and ruin all the mystery. That being said, there are some things which are worth knowing.

Let's see...
Name's Nathaniel.
I am divorced.
I can lick my elbow.
I'm so thin and flexible that I can pass through a plastic coat hanger.
I'm really just a clever meat robot.
I used to have generalized anxiety and social phobia. (The story of how this became past tense could/should be a novel).
I still occasionally have panic attacks (sometimes at the worst possible moments).
I eat babies and fart sparkles.
I try not to consume alcohol, processed sugar, caffeine, tomatoes or dairy.
I'm a terrible lay.
I was really hoping you would be taking a drink when you read that last bit.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... you can carry on an intelligent conversation...
... you are also learning Japanese, or speak Japanese and are learning English, and would like conversational practice...
... you have any interest in philosophy...
... you're down for seeing the occasional shadow play of Rocky Horror...
... you either can't decide or know exactly which Doctor Who episode is your favorite...
... you idolized Velma, not Daphne, from Scooby Doo...
... you have a suggestion for an anime you think I might like...
... you love to or would like to attend a convention or faire in costume...
... I managed to capture your attention long enough for you to read this entire profile...
or because you want to. After all, why deny such an easily satisfiable desire?

If you're shy, I get that -- and it's cute -- but I don't bite unless asked and as a rule I tend to respond to most of the messages I receive. It should also be mentioned that I like being pursued more than pursuing. As such, I tend to respond well to being approached. Also, I'm well aware of the fact that I'm a sexy beast but that is a very short conversation. If you're going to reach out, then reach out with purpose. I'm an insatiable slut for intelligent conversation, give me substance and I will gobble it up. Gobble. :P