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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Dec 26, 2014
White, Other
Seeing Someone
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
High school
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Irish (Somewhat), Other (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hail and well met! I'm an eclectic geek looking to make friends in the Cary/Raleigh area. I'd love to find people to game and hang out with, as I don't really get out much these days.

I'm an INFJ personality, according to the Myers-Briggs test...meaning I'm an introvert with an overactive imagination and a penchant for wanting to counsel others.

While I'm listed as 'bisexual' here, I'm actually pansexual (rough translation: I'm attracted to people, not specific genders). Sadly, OKCupid doesn't have an option for that yet.

Just so everyone is clear--I'm in a loving and dedicated relationship, and I'm certainly not looking to start a new one. I'm aware this won't make me very popular on a site like OkCupid, but it'll hopefully weed out people who are just looking for sex. That's not why I'm here.

My boyfriend has a profile here, as well, and is also looking for friends. :D Reidiest's Profile

If you're interested in the fandom side of things and want to see more of what I'm all about, have a look at my Tumblr!
Warning: gratuitous feelings.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
When I'm not at my day job, I'm at the Faire--historic reenactment, modeling, and character acting are what I love to do. At the moment, it's not something I'm paid for very often. I'm hoping to make that a full-time career one of these days, but until I get my break, I work at West Regional Library.

Outside of work, you'll find me volunteering for Historic Interpretations, a Raleigh-based reenactment group which specializes in the 16th-18th century time period. I have several friends in the SCA, as well, but I've never had the time or inclination to join, myself.

In addition, I'm considering going back to school to learn a this case, Esthetics and make-up artistry. It's something I enjoy doing--particularly helping others feel better about themselves via skincare, and bright, fun make-up looks as well as stage make-up.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a lover of knowledge, I make a point to research just about every interest I have to a rather silly degree. Thus, there are a lot of things I'm at least halfway decent at.

--Costume Design
-- Make-up application, both standard and stage
--Remembering pointless trivia, particularly if it involves the works of J.R.R. Tolkien ...that "other" language in the sidebar? That would be Quenya. I can do bits of Sindarin and Dwarvish, too.
--Navigation. I somehow wind up as the designated map-holder/navigator on almost ever trip I take. I'm not sure how this happens.
--Reminding people of just how amazing they are
--Making a fool of myself for the sake of humor
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's usually my bright red hair, which is now officially past waist-length, or the kitschy T-shirt I'm wearing. (My personal favorite? "Rock out with your Hawke out!" )

I'm rather outgoing, if somewhat awkward about it--I usually answer smiles and waves, and can start a conversation with almost anyone.

--For the people who have messaged me saying "lolol that's not what i noticed first NICE BOOBIES" like it's clever and original, here's a hint:

It's not.

It's sexual harassment, not to mention piggish, chauvinist bullshit. You might want to think long and hard about why it is you're still single.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-The Silmarillion, followed by Tolkien's other works
-The Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan
-The Mage Tower trilogy by Mercedes Lackey
-Tamora Pierce
-Megan Whalen Turner
-Neil Gaiman
-Terry Pratchett

I'm always reading something!

-The Lord of the Rings
-Thirteenth Warrior
-How to Train your Dragon
-Secret of Kells
-The Princess Bride
-Robin Hood: Men in Tights
-Kingdom of Heaven
-Wreck-it Ralph
-The Hobbit

I don't currently have cable, but I do enjoy watching educational TV from time to time. UNC-EX has some decent programming--travel shows, science and history documentaries, etc.

-Blind Guardian
-Nightwish (mostly old, but some new)
-Cu Dubh
-Florence + the Machine
-Medieval Baebes
-Heather Dale
-Loreena McKennitt
-Gaelic Storm

I love music in most of its forms, but I have a special love for
symphonic metal and celtic/folk music.

I'm adding Video Games as a list, too--it's not as long as the others, but I do have my favorites:

-The Elder Scrolls (Morrowind, Oblivion, Skyrim--I was late to the party, so I missed the earlier games)
-Dragon Age: Origins and Dragon Age II
-Fable, Fable II and Fable III
-Guild Wars II
...Are we noticing a trend yet? Good. ~

As for food? I like food. A lot. Especially meaty things, like
bacon, burgers, and a nice rare steak. I'm also partial
to Mediterranean and Middle-eastern food, as well as Thai, Indian....
Ffff, too many things to list here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My dearest sweetheart, Darius
-My friends
-Renaissance faires
-Having a pet in my life
-Halloween and other excuses to dress up
-Music in all its forms
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend most of my time these days planning. Planning for my career, my wedding, my future with my fiance, how we're going to make ends does get a bit overwhelming at times, but I'm giving it my best shot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm either around a gaming table with a group of friends, or curled up in my boyfriend's room with a pint (of Ben & Jerry's) and Dragon Age or Skyrim going on the Xbox. Let me tell you about the plight of the Mages...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I weren't such a wuss about surgery/body modification...I'd want some pointy ears.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-If you don't mind someone pontificating at length about First Age elves, certain blond Apostates, or kingly Grey Wardens.
-If you read (and liked) the Silmarillion!
-If your idea of fun involves garb and 16th-century drinking songs, among other things.
-If you actually read this profile, and want a like-minded friend in the Cary/Raleigh area.