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It-Is-What-It-Is

33 M Costa Mesa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
’m just a small town gir… Ok I guess that doesn’t really work but that song’s stuck in my head so just go with it! I’m born and raised in So Cal and I actually am from a relatively small town. My parents moved out here from England to I have a small family but I have the best friends in the world who are like family members. My dad always told me that he didn’t care how well I did at anything as long as I reached my potential so I try to live by that… He also told me if brains were dynamite I wouldn’t have enough to lift my hat so maybe I should reconsider his words of wisdom.

Essentially, if you don’t like Vince Vaughn in Wedding Crasher’s or Four Christmas’s then you probably won’t like me! I am witty and sarcastic, I can joke about anything and I refuse to take life too seriously. I have a bit of a tough exterior once you get past that hard shell I’m a huge teddy bear who makes a great cuddle buddy. I can be direct and to the point and sometimes require the “Cliff Note’s” version but I am always compassionate and will randomly remember that thing that you really liked or that place you wanted to try and surprise you with it. I love to cook, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t but you will always get either a great meal or a great story! My little 3 year old niece is the current love of my life and has me completely wrapped around her little finger, I have no problem saying no and setting boundaries in general yet, she says jump and I ask how high. By day I sell software to Golf Courses and Resorts, I love my job but it does require some travel which can make expanding my circle a challenge so I thought I'd check this out. By night I am a professional spider killer, it's almost ninja like and I take this job very seriously!!!

Everyone always asks what am I looking for? Well the truth is I have no idea. I have an amazing and full life but I am ready to include someone else in it. Essentially I have my cake, I'm just looking for the icing. I don’t really have a “type” or a checklist, I know what I find attractive when I see it, I'm looking for someone active who likes to get out and experience life and communication is the most important thing to me. I’d love to meet a spontaneous girl who loves nothing more than weekend away to nowhere in particular and isn’t afraid to live outside of her comfort zone. I want to be able to have fun together, where we can both be ourselves and there are no expectations besides getting to know each other and seeing where it goes from there.Most importantly, if your profile doesn't say... "I love to go out but also love staying in", "I’m looking for my partner in crime", “I work hard and play hard” or any other cliché, we just might be soul mates :).
What I’m doing with my life
Finally enjoying the journey... I have always been very task/goal oriented and only cared about the result. Now I am just trying to enjoy the experiences and let the cards fall where they may.
I’m really good at
Wearing my heart on my sleeve. Brutal honesty. Atheltics (well ones that dont involve a board)... I have played sports my whole life and I still currently play basketball, golf, go to the gym 4 days a week and train in muay thai but surfing and Snow Boarding are the bane of my existence. I get frustrated when I can't pick something up right away and those fall in that category.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually my size and my smile. I'm a big guy (6'0 and muscular) but I always have a big smile on my face. Once you get closer, my eyes. I have blue eyes but they're more subtle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Moneyball, I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell, Friday Night Lights, The Art of a Beautiful Game, The Book of Basketball, Title Shot: Into the Shark Tank. Yes I know they're all sports books but at least I'm reading. I don't really like fictional books.

Movies: Wedding Crashers, Hangover, Anchorman, Shawshank Redemption, Gran Torino, Rudy, Goodwill Hunting, Old School

TV: Breaking Bad, The Wire, Mad Men, Californiacation, Entourage, Modern Family, Dexter, Rob and Big

Music: Really depends on my mood and what im doing. Anything from Hip Hop to Country

Food: My 3 favorite things to eat are Sushi, Pizza, Steak
The six things I could never do without
My Cell Phone - I work from home and travel, its a necessity!
The Lakers
Google
The Gym
Humor, Sarcasm, Wittyness (not sure thats a word but go with it)
My BBQ (I make atleast 70% of the food I eat on there)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything and nothing... Seriously, I'm fairly impulsive and I tend to get a random thought and just go with it. 32 years have taught me that I can trust my instincts (but the few times they are wrong, well, they were way off).
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually at home. I travel a lot during the week so if I get home on Friday I'm more apt to make it a Netflix night or catch up on my DVR. That said, if there's something worthwhile I will definitely rally and am up for anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been banned for life from a Vegas Casino...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Lets be honest... Women never message people first on these things.

However, if your profile doesn't say... "I love to go out but also love staying in", "I’m looking for my partner in crime", “I work hard and play hard” or any other cliché, we just might be soul mates :).