My friends and family mean the world to me and while I don't have a lot of free time, I will always time for those that are worth it. If I have a choice between doing something special with ordinary people or something ordinary with special people, that will be the easiest decision I have to make that day. I can be impulsive and stubborn and always have to learn something the hard way, but at the same time, this has served me well in my life and my recovery skills are legendary (you laugh but you'll see, you can't stay mad at me :)).. I am truly at my happiest when I am doing something active, playing basketball, training martial arts or at the gym (and yes I understand most of my activities involve rolling around with sweaty dudes, don't judge). I eat very healthy and work out 5 days a week but you should probably stay away on my cheat day, it can be borderline embarrassing (plus you could lose a finger). There's only really 4 things that can put me in a bad mood... Being hungry (especially if its your fault for being late :)). When I'm sick. Not being able to workout . The Lakers losing but that's about it, life's too short to not be happy and enjoy it.
So the million dollar question... What am I looking for? Well I will say this... I have a great life and I am extremely happy but I wouldn’t be on a dating site if something wasn’t missing. I am definitely ready to settle down with the “right person”, at the same time I have so much going on in my own life that it’s definitely a want not a need. I value everyone that walks into my life whether its for an hour, a day, a year or the rest of my life. I am believer that when you meet that special person you will know and it will be unlike anything you have experienced before. I guess I am ultimately looking for someone that will compliment my life and me theirs not be my life and vice versa. I don't really have a "type" or a checklist but I need good communication, I mean history shows that I am clearly not the best mind reader, and I don't like when someone keeps everything bottled up instead of talking about it openly. I love a confident woman, and intelligence is huge turn on for me but I value common sense and life experience over an Ivy League degree. Someone who will occasionally just say "screw it, I'm in" but is strong enough to tell me no when I got carried away. At the end of the day I guess I'm looking for a teammate, someone who will challenge me and vice versa. I mean if together we don’t make each other better then why are we together in the first place?
And last but not least… I love originality and creativity so if your profile doesn't say... "I love to go out but also love staying in", "I’m looking for my partner in crime", “I work hard and play hard” or any other cliché, well then we may be soul mates :).