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It-Is-What-It-Is

34 Costa Mesa, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:49pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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If you made it this far clearly you must be wondering, "who is this really really ridiculously good looking man that I'm so compelled to message"? I guess the pressures on me not to screw it up so I should probably keep the momentum going by telling you all of the good things about myself? Well I’m sure you’ve already seen that a couple hundred times already so let's throw caution to the wind and start with the bad instead...

Truth is, I usually (always) forget to put the toilet seat down. I'm very impulsive, have no problem basing a decision off of a coin flip and patience is not a virtue I possess (with the exception of puppies and children). I'm incredibly sarcastic, often push boundaries and I solve problems better then I listen to complaining. I refuse to try on clothes at the store, won't share your excitement about a new pair of shoes and The Book of Mormon is the only musical I will acknowledge. Essentially I'm a man (who acts like a big kid) and I don't try to hide that. I still can't figure out how to fold a fitted sheet, I shoot my underwear at the hamper like it's game 7 of the NBA finals and I will always laugh inadvertent sexual references. My Sunday's are a day of football, the Lakers will always be my first love and I believe the Fast and the Furious is the greatest movie franchise of all time (I dare you to prove me wrong). That said I'm not some monster and I was raised by an English mother so I also fully understand that it's the guys job to take out the trash, I love to cook and can fix almost anything around the house. I still cry almost every time I watch Rudy, my spider killing skills are truly legendary, I appreciate a good chick flick and I make a great cuddle buddy who takes the roll of big spoon very seriously. Basically I'm like Vince Vaughn in Four Christmas's.... I will always open the door for you but will slap your ass as you walk through.

I believe, we all "think" we know what we want in life until something just clicks and you realize there's more to life then how something looks on paper. You can't explain why it works but it just does. It's easy even when it's hard because you compliment each other and always have each others back. I’m not looking for my best friend or someone to spend every waking moment with. I don't expect you to care about my fantasy team's or understand the intricacies of the triangle offense but I'm looking for the kind of woman that makes me want to turn off the game or stay in bed for an extra hour just to be with her. Someone who always looks at life with a glass half full, even if (especially if) it's just a wine glass on a Friday night. She truly knows who she is and isn't jaded from the ups and downs of life. Living a healthy lifestyle and working out regularly is a priority and nothing sounds like more fun than jumping in the car for a weekend trip without knowing what the plans are. Who thinks the perfect Saturday is a morning hike, going to the farmers market and making dinner together while listening to country music and splitting a bottle of wine.

So, if you have read this far you should probably just send me a message and say hi. I mean you're not getting these 20 mins of your life back anyways so you might as well get your money's worth. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Just taking it one day at a time...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Moneyball, I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell, Friday Night Lights, The Art of a Beautiful Game, The Book of Basketball, Title Shot: Into the Shark Tank. Yes I know they're all sports books but at least I'm reading. I don't really like fictional books.

Movies: Wedding Crashers, Hangover, Anchorman, Shawshank Redemption, Gran Torino, Rudy, Goodwill Hunting, Old School

TV: Breaking Bad, The Wire, Mad Men, Californiacation, Entourage, Modern Family, Dexter, Rob and Big

Music: Country is definitely my go to but it really depends on my mood and what im doing. Anything from Hip Hop to Country

Food: My 3 favorite things to eat are Sushi, Pizza, Steak
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have been banned for life from a Vegas Casino... Buy me a drink and I will tell you the story (but not tequila though since that's what caused the whole thing). Don't worry... It's nothing illegal but it is a great story!
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Lets be honest... Women never message people first on these things but if you have the balls to be bold and "break the rules", I'd love to hear from you.