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It-Is-What-It-Is

34 Costa Mesa, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you made it this far clearly you must be wondering, "who is this really really ridiculously good looking man and why am I so compelled to message him"? I guess the pressures on me not to screw it up so I should probably keep the momentum going by telling you all of the good things about myself? Well I’m sure the next time you see that won't be the first, plus I like to under promise and over deliver so let's throw caution to the wind and start with the bad instead...

Truth is, I always forget to put the toilet seat down. I'm impulsive, will base an important like decision off a coin flip and patience is not a virtue I possess (with the exception of puppies, kids and now, my Lakers). I'm incredibly sarcastic, often push boundaries and solve problems better than I listen to them. I refuse to try on clothes before I buy them, won't get excited about a new pair of shoes or purse and The Book of Mormon is the only musical I will acknowledge. Essentially I'm a man and I don't try to hide that. I still can't figure out how to fold a fitted sheet, I shoot my underwear at the hamper like I'm Michael Jordan and I will always giggle at sexual references. Sunday's are a day of football, the Lakers will always be my first love and I believe the Fast and the Furious is the greatest movie franchise of all time (I dare you to prove me wrong). That said I'm not some animal and I was raised by an English mother so I have manners and believe chivalry is not dead. I fully understand it's the guys job to take out the trash, I love to cook meals from scratch and can fix almost anything around the house. I still cry almost every time I watch Rudy, my spider killing skills are truly legendary and I appreciate a good chick flick which I make a great cuddle buddy for (I take my role of big spoon very seriously). Basically I'm Vince Vaughn in Four Christmas's.... I will always open the door for you but will slap your ass as you walk through.

I believe, we all "think" we know what we want in life until something just clicks and you realize you had no idea. You can't explain why it works but it just does. It's easy even when it's hard because you compliment each other and always have each others back. I’m not looking for my best friend or someone to spend every waking moment with and I don't expect you to care about my fantasy team's or understand the intricacies of the triangle offense... I'm looking for the kind of woman that makes me want to turn off the game or stay in bed for an extra hour just to be with her. Someone who always looks at life with a glass half full, even if (especially if) it's just a wine glass on a Friday night. Someone who truly knows who she is and isn't jaded from the ups and downs of life. Living a healthy lifestyle and working out regularly is a priority because she keeps her body in shape for herself. Some who believes that nothing sounds like more fun than jumping in the car for a weekend trip without knowing what the plans are and thinks the perfect Saturday is a morning hike followed by a farmers market and making dinner together (country music and a bottle of wine included).

So, if you have read this far you should probably just send me a message and say hi. I mean you're not getting these 20 mins of your life back anyways so you might as well get your money's worth. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just taking it one day at a time...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a jack of all trades, master of none, probably because I get bored before I ever master it. I seriously know everything about nothing which is completely useless in real life but makes me a hell of trivia partner! Sports have always been my passion, I played golf professionally for a short time and still play basketball regularly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Moneyball, I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell, Friday Night Lights, The Art of a Beautiful Game, The Book of Basketball, Title Shot: Into the Shark Tank. Yes I know they're all sports books but at least I'm reading. I don't really like fictional books.

Movies: Wedding Crashers, Hangover, Anchorman, Shawshank Redemption, Gran Torino, Rudy, Goodwill Hunting, Old School

TV: Breaking Bad, The Wire, Mad Men, Californiacation, Entourage, Modern Family, Dexter, Rob and Big

Music: Country is definitely my go to but it really depends on my mood and what im doing. Anything from Hip Hop to Country

Food: My 3 favorite things to eat are Sushi, Pizza, Steak
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music - I always have to have music on no matter what and the genre is completely activity dependent.

Google

iPhone

Good Sex - There, I said it!

GPS - It's killed my sense of direction but I feel it's a fair trade

Friends - More specifically, my friends! I don't have a large family so they ARE my family. They keep me grounded, put me in my place when I need it and always call me out on my bullshit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever catches my attention. There's no specific thing, I get a lot of random thoughts and I'm incredibly curious which leads to hours of Googling if I don't know something!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This could be anything! I will hop on the first flight to Vegas if someone suggests it out of the blue because I believe no good story started with "I decided to stay home tonight". That said it's far more likely that I'm unwinding by watching Netflix or clearing out my DVR with a bottle of wine now a days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have been banned for life from a Vegas Casino... Buy me a drink and I will tell you the story (but not tequila though since that's what caused the whole thing). Don't worry... It's nothing illegal but it is a great story!
You should message me if
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Lets be honest... Women never message people first on these things but if you have the balls to be bold and "break the rules", I'd love to hear from you.