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It-Is-What-It-Is

33 M Costa Mesa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ok, so now I know you have checked out my pictures and you're back for more! That's great news! I guess the smart thing to do would be to list a bunch of flattering adjectives and tell you why you should like me? Well, I would hate to bore you since I'm sure you have already seen about 200 profiles like this and honestly I've never been a big fan of taking the safe approach in life anyways. I believe it's always best to under promise and over deliver so why not start with the bad stuff...

I am impulsive and impatient at times, I am very witty and sarcastic and some people may say inappropriate, I say those people just don't have a very good sense of humor but to each their own :). I can be too direct and honest for some but you wont have to be a mind reader to know what I'm thinking. I have no problem setting boundaries and will always ask for what I want but do so without expectations. Essentially I'm like Vince Vaughn in Wedding Crashers or Four Christmas's, I will always open the door for you then I will slap your ass as you walk through. Going the the gym is a necessity for me, I try to play basketball, golf and train in kickboxing regularly and I believe Sunday's are meant for watching football all day. Honestly, you're welcome... I'm doing you a favor showing you the real me upfront, most guys will make you wait months to find all of this out :). While this is all true, there is a lot more to who I really am and you will find I tend to do "just enough" to make me worthwhile. I am a big believer that actions speak much louder than words so if you also believe taking the safe route is overrated, send me a message and let's get to know each other... All I ask in return is you dont make me wait months to get to know the real you either, I mean I showed you mine so it's your turn to show me yours.

As for who you are... you're not a "type" or a "checklist" but you must be amazing to me. You are curious about the world around you and are always up for a weekend away to nowhere in particular. You stay active both physically and mentally and always challenge me to be better. You are beautiful, at least in my eyes and communication comes natural to you. You are confident, optimistic and not afraid to live outside of your comfort zone. Most importantly, if your profile doesn't say... "I love to go out but also love staying in", "I’m looking for my partner in crime", “I work hard and play hard” or any other cliché, we just might be soul mates :).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
By day I'm in sales... By night I am a professional spider killer and I take this very seriously, it's almost ninja like!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile or laugh. Once you get closer, my eyes. I have blue eyes but they're more subtle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Moneyball, I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell, Friday Night Lights, The Art of a Beautiful Game, The Book of Basketball, Title Shot: Into the Shark Tank. Yes I know they're all sports books but at least I'm reading. I don't really like fictional books.

Movies: Wedding Crashers, Hangover, Anchorman, Shawshank Redemption, Gran Torino, Rudy, Goodwill Hunting, Old School

TV: Breaking Bad, The Wire, Mad Men, Californiacation, Entourage, Modern Family, Dexter, Rob and Big

Music: Country is definitely my go to but it really depends on my mood and what im doing. Anything from Hip Hop to Country

Food: My 3 favorite things to eat are Sushi, Pizza, Steak
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Cell Phone - I work from home and travel, its a necessity!
Google
The Gym
Humor, Sarcasm, Wittyness (not sure thats a word but go with it)
My BBQ (I make atleast 70% of the food I eat on there)
Sex - There I said it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything and nothing... Seriously, I'm fairly impulsive and I tend to get a random thought and just go with it. 32 years have taught me that I can trust my instincts (but the few times they are wrong, well, they were way off).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home. I travel a lot during the week so if I get home on Friday I'm more apt to make it a Netflix night or catch up on my DVR. Well, that's my preference anyways... More times than not I end up getting persuaded into rallying and meeting up with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have been banned for life from a Vegas Casino... Buy me a beer and I will tell you the story :).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Lets be honest... Women never message people first on these things but if you have the balls to be bold and "break the rules", I'd love to hear from you.