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35 M San Gabriel, CA

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, Ukrainian (Okay), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm always growing and above all value love, laughing, and kindness.

I have my life in order - a job I love and that adds meaning and value to my life, a home, dogs, great friends, no debt, money to play, and the gratitude that helps me appreciate it each and every day. I love helping to bring out the best in people and the way others bring out the best in me.

It's simple - I'll be myself and let you be yourself. We'll see if we click and have fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Living with an happy, open, silly, compassionate, and light heart.

Reading, writing, and learning new things when I can. Game of pool or basketball are nice.

I like taking photographs.
I’m really good at
being myself.

being happy (even when nobody is around)
intuition (wisdom even)
running -I can still run under 5 minutes for a mile.
giving good advice.
The first things people usually notice about me
My giant package (especially on days when I'm delivering Christmas gifts to loved ones).

My nice ass (especially on days I ride my donkey to work).

We could do without this question. How about we just leave it as a question stem when trying to email a potential date - "The first thing I noticed and liked about your profile was..."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I go to concerts or other shows regularly. Very wide variety of tastes. Have recently seen counting crows, coldplay, billy elliot, mana, morrissey, caifanes, seinfeld, louis ck, foo fighters, glen hansard, pitbull, and joshuea radin .... I like music a lot. I'll be going to see bad religion, mike tyson tell stories, and some more comedy shows soon.

Recent Books: Let's Pretend this Never Happened, Emotional Awareness, Some Oriah, Quiet, Unbroken - A WW2 Story of Survival (It was amazing), Shadow of the Wind, Prisoner of Heaven, The Fallen Angel, A Wanted Man, Dancing with Life, Fring-ology, and a biography of Van Gogh. I love ee cummings, Rilke, Rumi, Hafiz and many other poets. You don't have to do so, but don't judge me because I eat books. I'm currently reading up on photography this summer and recently bought some new equipment.

TV: Curb Your Enthusiasm, Tosh.0, the Daily Show, True Blood, Modern Family, The Newsroom, Louie, The Big C, The Big Bang Theory, Realtime, Homeland, and Southland, Justified.
The six things I could never do without
Physical activities
Love and kindness
Three more wishes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If one serving is 160 calories, how many calories will it be when I eat the whole bag?

How self awareness and kindness are so much rarer and special than physical beauty, and how wonderful it is to occasionally find both.

When are we going to have Yelp for people? We need to figure out a way to rate values, character, amazingly, kindnessocity, and other things (shadiness?).

It's interesting many different ways emotions cloud our point of view for better or worse and how even terrible experiences may one day have positive byproducts.

Seeing as men will do just about anything to impress and get women - buy fancy cars, flashy clothes, pretend they're someone they're not, use pick up lines from "The Game", etc -Imagine if what really impressed women was being a good person and doing good things. Seriously, think about it. Men would be bending over backwards doing good things, being nice (or pretending to....still) to win women's affection. Imagine the world it would be!!??? Women forget the power they have - and that if what really impressed them was meaningful and had depth, more men would have just that. No?

Why isn't there a word limit on this to prevent a-holes like me from rambling on nonsensically, as if anyone cared about words when there were pictures!?
On a typical Friday night I am

Yes... I am...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm Canadian and a preacher's son. You know what they say...
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you like incredible, hot, steamy sex for exorbitant durations (Duh). Haha.

you appreciate a bit of self awareness and have the openness to getting to know someone. You value a good heart, honesty, and sense of humor in your friends, family and significant other because you value those things in yourself.

You're pretty, simple, kind, and sincere - All else is just details ...

It's really tough to try and pinpoint what you really want or need in a partner. Above all else they should be an exceptional person. By no means perfect, but capable of understanding this, so that it does not drag them down, but helps then to be a better person by being real and loving who they are.


Something that I deeply enjoyed because it gets to the heart of living and dealing with life head on:

The Invitation

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dreams
for the adventure of being alive.

I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life's betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your
fingers and toes
without cautioning us to
be careful
be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand on the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,

It doesn't interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after a night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the center of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.

In short, I want someone nerdy and dirty! Kind and genuine and who knows herself a bit, even if she keeps changing.