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41 M New York, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 10:34am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a complete lunatic with homicidal tendencies. I very much like to make old people cry AND I have a talent for st ...
WAIT ... wrong website!!

I am a warm, caring, self-less person (with a sense of humor) hoping to find my other half.

FULL DISCLOSURE: I am only half Italian. My other side is WASP ... BUT I am 100% looking for a mate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making a go as an singer/composer in the greatest city in the world!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making cookies.
Making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sense of humor, very dry and witty.

My brown eyes (which are green around the edges)

My laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV: ARRESTED DEVELOPMENT (the show not the band) Nothing came before and nothing will come after!!

Music: On the classical side, I like the early 20th Century Brits.
On the non-classical side, I love my 80's!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Family
Gerald Finzi (if you know who this is, message me)
Cookie baking
Bridges to walk over
Living near water
Star Trek Deep Space Nine (I'm a dork ... maybe this should have gone under the "most private thing."
( I know that is 7 but 4 & 6 kind of go together.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to become a better artist.
How to make myself a better person.
When I should start writing the next great American musical.
What to have for dinner.
Whether my underwear should match my socks.
Building a better board game collection.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to the theater or having a nice quite dinner at home.

Working on my next great Opus.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a slight di... WAIT, TMI!!

I eat my breakfast and brush my teeth in the shower ... it saves time!!!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You want to meet and are serious about wanting a LTR.

I don't have a "type" but if you are a good person and you can make me laugh you are half way there.