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Hi, My name is Randy. First of all know that I am constantly
editing my profile trying to figure out how to put my life into
words, never knowing what to say or how to put it without being
abrasive. This is so confusing...just trying to be strait forward,
real and not fake up front. If you cant handle people that are
real, please move on and don't waste my time. I work more than I
should...just not found that special someone to share my time with
who can grab my attention and keep it...
I am starting a new chapter in my life. My daughter has turned 18
and will be graduating in 2014. She has been my rock, keeping me
focused on making the right choice for her not for me. Now it is my
turn. I have raised her since she was a baby, she has not seen her
mother since the age of 3. This has really made it hard for my
social life and meeting people. I know I made the right choice in
my life with my daughter, and I would not change it for anything.
No regrets, live for today, learn from yesterday and not worry
I have always found it hard to talk about me, so I am not going to
go into the details. Anything that I say here does not tell you
anything about me or who I am. I like to have fun and do new
things. Scary I know. With all of the profiles that I read, just be
yourself. Be real. Be upfront. I'm a very independent and strong
With my experiences in my life, all things that I have learned or
done are constantly changing my view of life, people and spiritual
beliefs, I've discovered that I have to continually adapt to what I
am doing to keep moving forward and live for today. Everyone needs
to live there own life.....I am working hard to eliminate the
anxiety that I have with social groups. I have always found it hard
to meet people, never knowing how to say hi how are you, and then
carry the conversation forward.
I keep looking forward with optimism, always trying to stay
positive about life.
When it comes to religion, I don't have to go to church to believe
in God, I have my own view on this subject just like everyone else
does....I am almost sure that if you asked everyone you see...they
would all give a different answer... just saying.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My life has been going through many changes as of late. I am trying
to taking my life down a new path. Change good, but very scary. I
am very excited at what life has been offering. Looking to move,
new place, new people and some new experiences. Looking for that
special someone I can sit under the moon and count the stars all
night long and watch the sun rise. Someone to share everything
with...the highs and the lows...who won't run when things go
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I try to do everything to the best of my ability...sometimes with
good results and then again sometimes bad. Always try to be
positive... about life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My shyness, and my eyes. I tend to be very quiet and keep to myself
most of the time, never know what to say when talking to someone
new. It takes that special someone to get my attention and then I
open up, I always try to be in a great mood because life is too
short to be anything else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read books that often, I usually read news online. I am a
big Syfy freak. I love comedies, a good laugh is always healthy,
not to big on horror, Romance if I am with that special someone. TV
- Law and Order, SVU, CSI, NCIS, Criminal Minds, Two and a half
men, Two broke girls, Friends. Comedy central, History, Science,
Syfi, USA are the usual channels that I watch if I am home. As for
music... I listen to all types, I can't listen to just one, too
many Good artist out in the world. As for food I am willing to try
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have only one thing I can think of at the moment, my daughter,
everything else is just material Items to me, nice to have but I
could go with out all of it. Just thought of my second thing that I
cant go without.."COFFEE"...first thing in the morning or the last
thing at night a cup for me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at the house if I have to work on a Saturday, If not out
with my family or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You will only find that out if you are a good listener, you will
have to have earned my trust and then I will tell you everything,
not many people have been able to earn that trust.
You should message me if
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