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Itisjm

46 M Winter Haven, FL

My Details

Last Online
Mar 8
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, My name is Randy. First of all know that I am constantly editing my profile trying to figure out how to put my life into words, never knowing what to say or how to put it without being abrasive. This is so confusing...just trying to be strait forward, real and not fake up front. If you cant handle people that are real, please move on and don't waste my time. I work more than I should...just not found that special someone to share my time with who can grab my attention and keep it...
I am starting a new chapter in my life. My daughter has turned 18 and will be graduating in 2014. She has been my rock, keeping me focused on making the right choice for her not for me. Now it is my turn. I have raised her since she was a baby, she has not seen her mother since the age of 3. This has really made it hard for my social life and meeting people. I know I made the right choice in my life with my daughter, and I would not change it for anything. No regrets, live for today, learn from yesterday and not worry about tomorrow.....
I have always found it hard to talk about me, so I am not going to go into the details. Anything that I say here does not tell you anything about me or who I am. I like to have fun and do new things. Scary I know. With all of the profiles that I read, just be yourself. Be real. Be upfront. I'm a very independent and strong willed.
With my experiences in my life, all things that I have learned or done are constantly changing my view of life, people and spiritual beliefs, I've discovered that I have to continually adapt to what I am doing to keep moving forward and live for today. Everyone needs to live there own life.....I am working hard to eliminate the anxiety that I have with social groups. I have always found it hard to meet people, never knowing how to say hi how are you, and then carry the conversation forward.
I keep looking forward with optimism, always trying to stay positive about life.
When it comes to religion, I don't have to go to church to believe in God, I have my own view on this subject just like everyone else does....I am almost sure that if you asked everyone you see...they would all give a different answer... just saying.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My life has been going through many changes as of late. I am trying to taking my life down a new path. Change good, but very scary. I am very excited at what life has been offering. Looking to move, new place, new people and some new experiences. Looking for that special someone I can sit under the moon and count the stars all night long and watch the sun rise. Someone to share everything with...the highs and the lows...who won't run when things go wrong....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I try to do everything to the best of my ability...sometimes with good results and then again sometimes bad. Always try to be positive... about life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My shyness, and my eyes. I tend to be very quiet and keep to myself most of the time, never know what to say when talking to someone new. It takes that special someone to get my attention and then I open up, I always try to be in a great mood because life is too short to be anything else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read books that often, I usually read news online. I am a big Syfy freak. I love comedies, a good laugh is always healthy, not to big on horror, Romance if I am with that special someone. TV - Law and Order, SVU, CSI, NCIS, Criminal Minds, Two and a half men, Two broke girls, Friends. Comedy central, History, Science, Syfi, USA are the usual channels that I watch if I am home. As for music... I listen to all types, I can't listen to just one, too many Good artist out in the world. As for food I am willing to try anything new.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have only one thing I can think of at the moment, my daughter, everything else is just material Items to me, nice to have but I could go with out all of it. Just thought of my second thing that I cant go without.."COFFEE"...first thing in the morning or the last thing at night a cup for me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to better myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at the house if I have to work on a Saturday, If not out with my family or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You will only find that out if you are a good listener, you will have to have earned my trust and then I will tell you everything, not many people have been able to earn that trust.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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Only if you find what I am about interesting...