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27 M Sacramento, CA

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Last Online
Today – 1:21am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and very serious about it
Dropped out of two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
This is intimidating. I am a passionate person with big ambitions. I would like to meet someone similar. To me maturity means wading into the unfamiliar and dissonant willingly in order to broaden your perspective. This is what makes me happy and makes me feel fulfilled. It also makes me a more empathetic person. I am extremely monogamous and in an ideal world I would meet a person with whom I could maintain a relationship while we both pursue our own ambitions.

I used to be shy but am extremely confident (maybe too confident?) since I started playing drums in a rock band that has had some success. I have a cushy but stressful desk job to pay the rent and a habit of writing (mostly the beginnings) of novels. I have a small but really close group of friends that I will often sit around with until five in the morning waxing philosophic about art, anthropology, and cordical neurobiology.

I have a tendency toward sarcasm and when I say tendency I mean if every person I know dies I will make jokes about it immediately. I may not be very good at expressing myself directly... but I am realistic. I am very open about myself and my shortcomings. I am constantly trying to better myself.

I am atheist and don't drink/smoke. I don't care if anyone else does.
What I’m doing with my life
Well I already covered this in that last section... Hmm
I’m really good at
Playing the drums. Ok at guitar, especially folk stuff, and getting pretty decent at music production.

Creative writing. I spend lots and lots of time thinking about storytelling on every possible level and although my writing style is slow and mechanical I think I will have something significant to offer the world as a writer.

Arguing. I am amazing at this. I will almost always disagree with you in any discussion. This is a sign of respect from me. When I do this I am trying to have a conversation in which we can both teach each other. I think our brains are machines ideally suited to this and it is the most satisfying experience I can have.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know, I'm very direct. I guess my hair when it gets long. Also my eyes? I don't know this is weird.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Standard nerd fare. Also Vonnegut, Penn Jillette, lots on non-fiction and some other stuff I forget.

I'm in a band so I'm kind of a music elitist by default which annoys even me. I get into lots of arguments about wether or not there is an objective measure of quality in music or art in general. Recently I've been into Dylan, especially Hard Rain and Blood on the Tracks, The Band, and Fleetwood Mac. Before that it was Rilo Kiley and before that it was Björk and before that it was the Stones and its kind of all over the place.

I love stories in all mediums, especially ones that are unconventional or unintentional. Stories are sort of everything to me.

I am an obnoxiously picky eater. I don't eat fish unless its deep-fried. I don't eat spicy things. I like bland. Bland all the way.
The six things I could never do without
Computer. I mean it's literally the most useful thing there is.

Guitar. I need to get ideas out all the time.

This is kind of a dumb question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oh man. It's all over the place. Stories, music, politics (ugh why), human nature, physics-this will be a long list one day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my friends talking or working on some crazy project or playing a show with my band. Why do I feel like I'm thirteen when I say that?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm willing to admit lots of stuff. That makes this question really hard to answer. Probably the thing that I'm most embarrassed about is that I'm afraid I am intellectually lazy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've read all this and feel like you can relate to me or would like to talk.