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33 Seattle, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 18, 2013
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Queer nerd. Gentle. Good-humored. Chatty. Curious.

I think that sums it up. :) As for the finer print...

I dig psychology, photography, documentaries, provocative film, and animals. I'm really upbeat, happy-go-lucky, and interested in ideas, people, places, and pie. Yes, pie. I snarf pastries like no tomorrow.

I love my bike "Roger," my furry companions, training for (half) marathons, eating out, eating in general, socializing with strangers, and hoppy IPAs.

I have a Masters. I don't think I use it.

My grandmother raised me in Hawaii. Surfing was my love. I was the only white kid in my school, and smacked down a lot for being goofy and gay-looking. Moving to Seattle has been awesome, and I've been a social butterfly since, though I really miss the water and surfing... whimper!

Regarding attraction.... I'm not very "straight" and I don't think I'm all that attractive to (or super attracted to) very "straight" guys. I dunno. I use the word "straight" loosely and with no negative feelings- I feel like the English language is really limiting when it comes to gender, sexuality, attraction, etc. I've connected well in the past with bisexual guys, "soft" guys, queer-identified men or just really open-minded, progressive people in any form. My ideal mate would be simply a gentle, kind-hearted guy who is attracted to energetic girls who look like boys. Is that weird? I guess that's why I'm on okcupid!

Anyway, I'm looking for a relaxed guy I can simply connect with, who's dynamic, thoughtful, and thought-provoking. Someone I can learn from and with, and have new adventures that wouldn't be as much fun alone.

Thanks for reading and happy browsing!
What I’m doing with my life
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Corporate by day, hippie by night, with some gym, gay clubbing, urban photo expeditions and bubble baths in between. Wheeee!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Relating. Empathizing. Being giddy. Getting jiggy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smile, I think. I smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh you know... all of them. ;) Random Walk Down Wall Street, Middlesex, House of Cards, East of Eden, Tree of Life, L.I.E., and... a few more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog, camera, and something to write with and on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ugh, where it's all going?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on a video. Or eating out. Or maybe chilling with my dog in a park.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suck at cooking. (But I'm really good at eating!)
You should message me if
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You like to talk and you're not hot for breasts. Because I'm chatty and don't have any.