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IvanStang

52 M Sunnyvale, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Happy, healthy, successful, adventurous polyamorous seeks same and sane alike. Not looking to fix anyone and I require little or no maintenance myself. Seeks a relationship or friendship based on desire not need, do you understand the difference? My wife calls me "Rock Otter". She says I am her rock, and I am playful and fun to be with. I am imaginative, playful and childlike at times. Am also serious and deep.

I am a software engineer with some hardware background as well. I designed and developed code for the Macintosh operating system and the Kindle, among other high profile projects. I am a maker. I'm currently working on a Paralax all-terrain robot [will post a pic] which I hope to test out at Burning Man this year. While I am certainly a geek, I am high functioning in the social arena. Quite extraverted, I'll work on my bot one minute, then hop into my 1948 Hudson and hit the local down town bar to hang out with friends the next (well, only if the compiler reports zero errors). If you are adventurous you will not only like me, you will probably like my friends as well.

I am fun to be with. I have been known to help introverts come out of their shells for a little fun. My wife Linda calls me "Rock Otter".

I communicate well. My approach to relationships and friendships is drama free and I have a good track record. I even come with references.

I am a little kinky, preferring to play the dominant role in bed. But I'm no sadist. It's all about her, and I love to live off of the feedback. She may think the same way about me perhaps.

Sex is a fine component to a relationship, but an overall connection to the other person is what I'm really all about.

I believe a relationship should be based on a mutual desire to explore, create and grow. It should be forged in optimism, by two or more healthy people. If you are looking to be complete. If you are looking for the one. Please look elsewhere. I only do healthy happy relationships.

I good way to get to know me before meeting or talking might be to hit my website. http://www.chrishull.com

[more to follow]

-Chris

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I've heard a lot of good things about this site, so I thought I'd test it out. Indeed, it seems to be connecting me to people I already know, and these folks are already good friends, so in a way it's working.

I am married and in an open and loving relationship. I'm looking to meet people and am willing to see where this takes me. And yes, sex may be in the cards, depending on how we connect.

I'll fill out the profile as ideas occur to me. I find a lot of the questions the system asks to be very interesting and it's easy to see how OkCupid can operate as an effective matchmaker.

I just returned from a trip to Germany, so perhaps I'll post some photos soon.

Thanks for reading, stay tuned for more;
-Chris
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a successful software engineer, having worked on the Macintosh and Kindle. I also play around with various electronics related hobbies

I own a 1948 Hudson Super Six which I have largely restored myself. We own a large Victorian house in LA which we periodically pound nails into.

We go to Burning Man every few years and build our own camp. The camp changes a little every year, consisting of tents and a few structures we create out of PVC pipe and parachutes. Did you know what water disposal is, ironically, one of the more difficult tasks in the desert. You have to evaporate as much of your used water as possible.

I also periodically go to Europe and visit friends. I have a few in Germany.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good engineer. I'm creative, and pretty logical too. I'm also a very social animal and have many circles of friends. Some are Burners, some in various technical fiends, some are science fiction fans, and I even have friends at the local bar. My friendships are very diverse and I pretty much get along with anybody.

With the right person, I'm a good kisser and have a nice touch to start things off with. Get to know me and I'll tell you more.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a tallish blue eyed blonde Viking. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have many favorites, from Larry Niven (Tales of Know Space) to Sex and the City (am I the only guy who liked that show), to an interesting little film called Primer. Gotta mention Blade Runner, Repo Man, and Buckaroo Bonsai too.

But, even tho Star Trek, Sesame Street, and a few other greats have come to pass, I truly believe the television set was in fact invented for one purpose... Twin Peaks.

Boingo, Boston, Jean Michelle Jarre, of course Led Zep, Tangerine Dream, Synergy, Modern Jazz Quartet, Orbital 808 State.... I like a lot of diverse music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My wife Linda
Duct tape
Our little kitty Becky Had her for 15 years now.
Humor
Wit
Optimism
Did I mention Linda? :-) (oh crap, that makes 7)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human nature, politics, engineering, and science / science fiction. But human nature is the thing I like to really dwell on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am either out with my wife visiting friends, or at the local bar listening to loud rock 'n roll.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...will not be revealed online.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–72
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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Yes, I did mark "casual sex". However I pretty much always form some sort of attachment and want to get to know people I am intimate with. If you really want a one night stand, I might not be the one to contact. I am also polyamorous and married, so if you are looking for your own guy, I'm not him. Otherwise, shoot me an e mail, even if you just want to be friends. I'm always looking for a good conversation. Sex is plentiful, I'm looking for a little more than that.