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Ivancito_

41 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a lovable teddy bear of a man I have been told over and over again. Those who know me for more than 10 minutes know that I'm a gentle person.
I enjoy self indulgence when I can do so. However, I appreciate selflessness and empathy in others.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Honestly, I think I'm a good catch. That's not to say I have IT all figured out, but to say I have a solid foundation of values. I treat people with respect and expect the nothing less.
I am introspective at this juncture in my life, but I'm not egotistical. I have experienced a lot and still feel like there is so much more to understand about life. I look forward to moving on in life and learning ever day a bit more about who I am and what the world has to offer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a generous and positive vibe. I'm good at rapport building and making quick friends with most people.
I've been told I'm a good listener and empathetic. I make connections with people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They notice that I am incredibly amiable and gregarious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Tons and tons, but off the top...
Shows:
I mostly watch what Netflix, Amazon, and Youtube provide since I have no TV.
Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Family Guy, Soccer/Futbol (Boca Jrs., La Seleccion Argentina, Barcelona, Liverpool, Champions League, World Cup)
Charlie Rose, PBS News Hour, Frontline
Radio:
Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, This American Life, Studio 360, Radio Lab, Fresh Air, The Takeaway (PRI), etc...
Books (must admit I read periodicals more than books):
Catcher In the Rye, Siddhartha, Breakfast of Champions
Magazines:
Economist, Foreign Affairs, Bloomberg, The Atlantic, Harper's, The New Yorker, New York Times Magazine, New York Review of Books (rarely)
Newspapers:
Financial Times, Wall Street Journal, New York Times, L.A. Times,
SF Chronicle
Movies:
Full Metal Jacket, Apocalypse Now, Brother Where Art Thou, The Royal Tanenbaums, Hudsucker Proxy, The latest installment or reboot of Star Trek, Las Nueve Reinas, Amores Perros, Y Tu Mama Tambien, All the President's Men, Pixote
Any Wes Anderson movie or Coen Brothers movie and almost any documentary
Food:
Texas BBQ, Argentine Asado, California Cuisine, Tex-Mex
Pho, Sushi, Pan Asian, Home Cookin.
Music:
Almost anything by Led Zeppelin
Almost anything by Public Enemy, Jurassic 5, Cut Chemist, KRS-One, etc...
Almost anything by The Rolling Stones, Beatles
Almost anything by Ween
I also like old Country (Waylon, Willie and the boys, etc)
John Coltrane, Miles Davis, and Charles Mingus
John Lee Hooker and Muddy Waters
Stevie Wonder
Genres I like to dance to: Funk, Breaks, House, Musica Latina
and on and on and on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love
Friends
Ability to reason
Camera
Living near (large) bodies of water
Sunglasses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How best to express the butterflies I feel in my stomach when I experience a sunrise, the majesty of landscapes, or just the sheer beauty of every day life and things. To me there are fewer greater pleasures than imparting and sharing the euphoria that life evokes in all of us from time to time. I have been best able to do that through photography so that's what I spend a lot of time thinking about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends: Usually drinking with friends and laughing off the week that was.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not yet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If and only if you are looking to have fun and be a sincere person.