Amorous but also independent. Don't like to pigeonhole or be pigeonholed; prefer to cultivate beginner's mind (another happy place).
Analytical but suggestible; playful, ethical, nerdy, patient. Love beauty but value it most in the heart and soul. A bit cagey, but also gullible--go figure, I'm left-handed. I go with my gut more than my head, even though the latter never seems to take a break.
I'm in an "open relationship" (my wife of 33 years). We parted ways sexually 25 years ago, when I came out. I have no special wish to bring a guy into the sphere of that relationship in a social way, although it has happened when there's interest all around. My biggest wish (and why I'm here on OKCupid) is to have a good, independent connection with a swell guy or guys, whether that's friendship or with the so-called benefits.