Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi there! Well for starters I just had knee surgery so I am laid up
for for awhile at home...an old Filipino folk dancing injury....So
right about now you are sitting back and wondering can I read all
this she wrote on here? I can't blame you cause I often want to
skip over all the writing. I feel impatient sitting back, I like to
be engaging right off the bat. It's where my own personal power is-
joining and reading people. I am curious about what makes you tick
and will be interested in hearing about all about your thoughts and
feelings. I love it when it is reciprocated. I am an affectionate
person and love nothing more than a big hug or a passionate kiss.
PDA is not only acceptable, it's encouraged. My passions in life
are my 3 children, my dogs, travel abroad, music, my work and
dancing with a guy who's got rhythym. I took salsa dancing lessons
a couple of years ago and would love to take you to dance class
with me because I am rusty for sure. Don't be shy, you can do it!
(There were some real humdingers in the class, believe me, you can
do it.) I have a lot of art in my home, most of it has come from
Ebay but darn it, I pick good stuff! I am a dog lover and have 2
dogs who I enjoy. Please be a guy who enjoys teenagers and dogs ,
so we can enjoy what's important to us together
The guy I' m looking for primarily is capable of being direct about
what he thinks and feels. He is a humble man, despite his
accomplishments. He's kind and still manages to have a sassy sense
of humor and can banter with me, even if he's on the shy side. He
loves to have fun and is easily affectionate. He's open with his
feelings and is able to take a risk and share them, despite his
past with women. He's a committed parent and finds pleasure in
interacting with his kids. He excels in his chosen profession and
has been successful. He's ready to fall in love and doesn't have
anything holding him back from me like a wife, an allergy to dogs,
Aspergers Syndrome, or an inferiority complex when standing next to
a tall woman. He's dated around and knows there's nothing better
out there than what he's found with me, cause it's just that good
between us. We have a connection centered in the fact that we get
each other and are best friends. We really do enjoy each other's
company because we are kind, considerate, and excited about each
Online dating uses more mind than heart. It's fraught with
difficulty. I'd just like to add that most of us on here have been
thorough the trenches of online dating. Rejection received or given
is no joke. What seems to happen is that we start sleep walking
through this as evidenced by a inflexible shopping list, a
disagreement via email,(really? we barely know each other, how can
we be fighting already?) interviews - trying to select the best
candidate for the position...we stop using our heart and get stuck
in our heads. We really do have to be careful to not check out
emotionally and sleep walk through this stuff. If we aren't aware
and don't have our cab lights turned on, we might miss each other!
Let's look at each other through the lens of kindness, give people
the benefit of the doubt as to their intentions and be open to
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am raising 3 teenagers and trying to keep them on the straight
and narrow path. I share custody so I do have help. I also have two
dogs, a crazy rescue dog and an old Pug. I work as a social worker
full time, and provide psychotherapy to clients.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting deep :) I like to really get to know people and understand
what their intentions are. I am also good at remembering foreign
languages, baking cookies, cakes and pies, and picking really
unique perfumes that people love.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am tall - 5'9' 3/4. My big smile...(my dentist loves my
teeth) and my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I tend to read professional literature as I am always trying to
improve my skills. I love music and my all time favorites are old
Elton John, Sade, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Dave Matthews Band, funk
and r and b from the 70's and 80's, Al Green, Amy Winehouse, John
Mayer...the list goes on and on.
Foreign food is what I find fun! I love Japanese the best, but
Indian, Vietnamese, Thai, and any other around the world find is
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could never do without a dog, perfume, dental floss, yoga pants,
and my GPS - I hate to be lost, makes me anxious!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I need to sell my house and move to a town home.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing. After a busy work week I usually just want to do low key
things and ease into the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am looking for a man to share private things with:)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have kids and a dog or love kids and dogs, like witty banter,
have a world view and find dental floss a necessary hygiene habit
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