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58 Columbia, MO Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 47–66
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 7
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly halal
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hawaiian (Poorly)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just returned to town; having spent the previous 6.5 years in my childhood home of So. California taking care of mom.

It's great to be back and wonder about my next adventure. I'm still unpacking boxes and wondering what happened to all the 'space' I had in my house. Unpacking boxes and unpacking old friendships - - meeting new friends on the porches of my neighborhood.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening. and laughing ... and looking for the silver lining {and it's shadow: awful-izing - - makes me good at planning for disasters : plus I was a lifeguard, then trained as rescue-diver, then a nurse.. I must got awful-izing in my blood!}
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hard to say: probably a stranger would notice my size; clothes, long hair and great teeth [since I smile often, and try to laugh a lot]

I have a good smile and a warm personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
to quote a friend "Beej55": 'I like books, movies, shows, music, and especially food, but what might tell a little more about me than long lists of the aforementioned, are a few quotes that have meaning to me:

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming WOO HOO what a ride!" - Hunter S. Thompson

"Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I'll meet you there" - Rumi

"I don't necessarily agree with everything I say." - Marshall McLuhan

“All things are subject to interpretation; whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth.” - Friedrich Nietzsche

"Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity" - Robert J. Hanlon

And a little more about food: recipe adventuring with tried-and-true American cuisine OR, especially - finding things at the local Asian and Middle Eastern market and creating from there. I'm newly back to town so haven't done that much here... the Asian markets in So Cal were awesome!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I hardly know how to whittle the list down: a feeling of balance, something to look forward to, I like electricity a whole lot, camping gear a pillow and my toothbrush.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering what exactly, do I want to do for income now that the world is wide open to me; then there's the good ol' standards: Letting go of the illusion of control; without confusing that with 'having a direction' or a 'goal' and pursuing that. To listen if the universe has a different idea than I on the topic of using my strengths/talents.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I suppose I do not abide by that normal "friday night" syndrome thing. First I was married; then I was in college [and Thursday night was our night 'out' to Hula's] since then I've either worked out in the country on a farm, or the night shift and weekends OR as with the last segment of years - - just been a stay-at-home parent caregiver.

On a typical Friday night I am happily doing whatever it is that's come up to do. Happily. Chatting on a porch, gardening and chatting with friends and neighbors walking by.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I make plans based on winning the 38 bazillion-dollar lottery, but I never buy a ticket.