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29 • Berkeley, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–35
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 1:14am
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Leo, but it doesn’t matter
- Likes dogs and likes cats
I'm a somewhat awkward person who likes too much science fiction and fantasy, and expects too much out of my fiction. I have a sense of humor that a lot of people just don't get, and sometimes I don't think things others find to be hilarious to be worth laughing at, even if I try with both hands.
I'm a bit more shy than I should be, and when you get to know me I can be a little to talkative. But that seems to be almost everyone around here. No one knows quite what to say, how to open up to other people at first.
Often, my most interesting conversation of the day is online...or with some random person from a long check out line. I need to change that, quite a lot. Not to say that I'd ever give up my friends from all over the world, or interesting people to talk to while standing in line to buy things... Life would be rather sad without those things.
I'm not so good at these things...but hey. I'm open to questions.
I should also note that I've been identified as a heterosexual cisgendered white male. (I understand at this point that my actual choice in sexual partners and actual genetic history don't matter as my skin looks white and my chosen partners all tend to look female. As such, I've lost my right to self-identify... the facts don't compare to the cosmetic level for some people. I get that.)
I spend my days taking photos, fixing computers, cleaning up yards, or anything else that comes my way. Life is about variety. One adventure is as good as another for a first try.
I'm finding more and more that I need to self promote more in every aspect of my life. Shockingly enough, the world does not hand you human interaction, jobs, or really good books with a cup of tea without you interacting with it. So I'm doing that. I'm interacting. I'm talking to people about their problems, and trying to make things just that little bit better...and trying to make my life that little bit better too.
I've been told I'm great at non-traditional solutions for non-traditional problems. Whatever that means.
I am a good listener, though. I always seem to be able to do that right, even when I can't give good advice.
As for movies, Mirrormask, the original starwars trilogy, gattaca, the day the earth stood still, mannequin. Science fiction, apocalypse, comic romance. Action, adventure. Firefly.
Music is complicated...I like a wide variety of things, some that most normal heterosexual males would never admit to enjoying. I can listen to anything from classical and jazz to metal to acid trance. I don't tend to like most country or rap, though.
For food...I'm simple. Pizza, burgers, tacos, salads and so on. Anything that can be tossed together with a minimum of effort and provide enough energy to keep doing what I want to do.
I've been really enjoying this simple salsa/avocado/sour cream thing I've been making. And yogurt. Slow cooked tough cuts of meat are the best thing ever.
Really, a couple changes of clothes, my camera, and a laptop, and I can go anywhere. Everything else is just a convenience.
Functional ways to advance space travel. And why we need to think more about the space of space travel and not the large planetary bodies. Escaping gravity wells, even weaker ones like the moon are just to costly right now.
Surviving the oncoming zombie apocalypse, and exactly how to dig that fallout shelter in the basement without having the landlord know about it. In reality this is an analogy for disaster preparedness in general. I've been way to close to to many large fires, and seen the after affects of to many other natural disasters to not want to be ready for whatever comes next.
Whether or not I should be doing something besides what I'm currently doing, and why. Wither or not my current life goals are counter-productive for where I want to be in ten years... And what it is exactly I want to be doing with my life in ten years time.
The many ways to fix the "insurmountable" problems of comic book and tv heroes. Rogue, for example? Full body transparent latex cat-suit. "personal contact" issues solved.
And girls. Way too much thought on the subject of girls.
That at three am, okcupid match questions are actually amusing?
If you rate me highly on the "quickmatch" thing. Seriously! The number of people who think my profile is worth rating highly, compared to the number of people who actually drop me a message... It's something like a one in fifty thing. Talk to me! I won't bite, without prior consent!
So, I think I should add another thing in here. If you don't like the occasional spelling mistake or Grammar error, don't bother contacting me. Alongside a laundry list of other conditions that don't exactly make striding obvious appearances in my day to day life, I have a condition known as Dysgraphia, which apparently is COMPLETELY ok to discriminate against...just ask every unforgiving grammar nazi out there. (seriously, every time I bother having this conversation, the old "you're just to lazy to learn how to write properly" argument comes out...feels fucking amazing, I'll tell you, there's NOTHING like being made fun of for things you literally have zero control over.) I've worked incredibly hard to get my spelling and grammar to the point they are today. Dysgraphia is an interesting condition that affects some fine motor skills, and not others. I can't write by hand or draw in a way that is concise or easy to do, or understand...but I can walk a six inch wide beam with my eyes closed, no problem.
Also, I should point out I'm not exactly Bi, but most people don't really accept my definition of heterosexual... If a lady says she's a lady, I don't judge her based on her genitals, I judge her based on her words. I don't enjoy masculinity, it doesn't really appeal to me. It's rather more complicated than just "bi/straight" for most people, though, is it not?
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