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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48-63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:27pm
White, Other
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
<3 I'm enjoying this part of my life, particularly my career as I have made my next step, and am feeling very happy and fulfilled.

I now have more time and energy to share.
I am not in any hurry for relationship, so if you are, please don't misunderstand my laid back style, and consider someone who might be more suitable for you. I am excited about meeting You, though !!!

I wish to address my profile photo, as many have opinions about it, and rightly so. This part sounds business-like, and is intended. My aim is to be neutral - not demanding:

As a working professional, I must insist on ethical respect not only for my own personal life, but more importantly not wishing to risk the objectivity that one's professional relationships depend on, esp. with my patients, via what they might learn about me, as in "too much information" here.
Objectivity is key in my field. Therefore - no public domain photos of me. I do apologize for the inconvenience of not being able to satisfy one's natural curiosity. I am more than happy to send photos via email.
This is my professional and personal choice; to compromise professional relationships for my own personal gain is ethically not an option.
. . I've weathered the assumptions of others before - so be it.
I have nothing to hide - I am very open in person. I have also met many wonderful, intelligent and understanding people here. Okay - That's it !! :D
I live alone, and I choose to be romantically involved with only one person at a time, and w/ substantial space between. You know what I mean . . .

I am financially independent and responsible. . . neither wealthy nor destitute.
Seeking same.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it... using the gifts that Life gave me, keeps giving me. Learning every day.

Following my heart more often. Finding more time for playing and writing music. Looking for a special woman who is both independent and passionate about life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being fully present...while choosing my words carefully.


Let's see... I 'm a visual and musical person.

I would love to meet someone who has Spanish, Italian or possibly Arabic skills who wouldn't mind sharing their language with me. I have some Spanish and French in the memory banks, but they are rusty. Spanish is a bit more 'available'.

I speak chess semi-fluently. A romantic partner who also plays? Sweet ! I have regular playing partners, play online, and sometimes find a chess club where I'm traveling.
I am a natural teacher, and enjoy working with all different kinds of people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes hear: "always smiling/cheerful" and just as often: "Who brought / ate the chocolate ? "

. . . soft, kind voice. Polite. (friends, family and co-worker feedback).
I'm sometimes quiet in public, and privately more expressive.
I try to keep a fresh sense of humour
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm often happiest when I'm preparing a meal for you or being cooked for. Creating something together is best.
I also enjoy a variety of wines, mostly red. Chiantis and Tuscan reds are still my current favorites, and French Bordeaux, Chotes du Rhone.... a good Cab or any Pinot Noir makes it an easy choice.
I enjoy reading biographies, short plays, fiction and non, peer-reviewed journals and internet news, art magazines and picture books round out my favorites.

Not a skier, although could be encouraged to do just about any unnecessarily dangerous activity w/ the right person. Like to skate. Would be interested in snowshoeing. Learning to play tennis - much different than racquetball, which I played for years.
I prefer indoor, or warm weather outdoor activities, concerts, classical and jazz, all kinds of music, really. Passable waltz, swing and Latin, and of course rock and roll, freestyle and ...Motown is a fave fave.

Love film / art; esp. in the tastings, hiking, kayaking...endless list of things to do.....
A "re-purposed" artist, I still enjoy drawing and watercolors when I find the time.

Eastwood, Coen brothers fan, many others; really a wide range of interests in film - love film festivals.
As a single man, I enjoy and miss watching a film with a companion, and having a spirited 'peer review' afterward.
The more I read the powerful things people are saying / sharing in social media, the more pressing is my experience of wanting to share ideas with others .
Food, ethnic anything, preferably clean Asian, Thai, Vietnamese, Korean.
Sushi and Hot sake ? Yes, please.
Love Italian food, and have passable northern and good southern Italian, and Indian cooking skills.. curries, and the coveted 'One-Dish Stir-Fry Champion,' Men's Division.
I made that part up.

The last brilliant film I've seen in the theatre: The Clouds of Sils Maria, directed by Olivier Assayas w/ Juliette Binoche and Kristen Stewart (who steals the show, shhh ). . .
I like this snapshot of the film best: from the UK Observer, Mark Kermode - "...Assayas establishes a complex emotional weather system in which age and identity ebb and flow as mysteriously as the titular clouds that snake through the Engadin valley."
You must see it.
*not for the faint of heart or emotionally sensitive or depressed.

Sadly miss Phillip S. Hoffman... one the greatest artists to grace the screen, and the theatre, for those who have had the pleasure of seeing him there. Now I can only hope there is film of those performances !
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Quiet, solace, sound of the river swirling by,
fresh air and the sound of the wind, ocean, whisper of trees,
the sound of people laughing, scent of the forest air, and fresh rain...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- always thinking of how to be better at whatever I do

...the bigger picture
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually some down time for me. I'm out-of-doors more often in the warmer months now - early evening walks, short hikes on the weekends. Sometimes working late as a choice. Catching up on news, and putting the day's stimuli down for a long nap. ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
in public.

hmmm . .
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- if you've read my profile and you want a picture, just ask. I'm happy to send pictures in an email - just not in the public domain. Thank you for your understanding w/ this ethically formed decision. I will send my email address from here.

You want to ~escape~ from online dating and interact in person.
Online sites like this are a means for introduction, naturally. So if you think we might have the makings of an interesting conversation over a beverage, let's make a plan.