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22 M Madison, WI

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Oct 16
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats
English, German, Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hey! I'm Jack, and I'm just a queer dude who loves rocks & ideas & places & movies. I just moved to Madison for grad school (in ~structural geology~) and would love to make some new friends.

I've lived various places around Ohio & Pennsylvania but I'm originally from Cleveland, and love Northeast Ohio. It combines a lot of my personal cultural interests: urban decay, suburbia, and americana.

My interests vary from local history to literature to cinema to pop culture. I spend my spare time accordingly: watching movies, visiting museums and other sites of local interest, roller skating, going to parties, etc.

I am fascinated by the effect of the internet on our personal lives, and I consider net culture to be a huge influence on my style and identity (not in a seapunk / vaporwave way or anything, though). I don't at all subscribe to ideas of analog authenticity, and, though somewhat ambivalent on broad-scale impacts of the internet, do think that social media can be a powerful tool for personal growth/change/whatever

ENFP if you care
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying geology at UW. I recently graduated from Oberlin College, where I majored in geology (duh I guess) with some German literature on the side. (b0ring answer)

Driving around the midwest

Watching movies

Trying to make my life as habitable as possible

You know the deal.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing theme parties
Group Dynamics
Telling Stories
Infiltrating social groups
Taking selfies
Not getting upset
Being filthy
Consuming media
Crying but only during movies
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Cave, East of Eden, The Sirens of Titan, Annals of the Former World, Die Leiden des jungen Werthers, Revolutionary Road, Death in Venice, Lotte in Weimar, Faust, Penthesilea, Frankenstein, Mrs. Dalloway (sorry a lot of these are German)

Movies: (Uhhhh okay this is so hard for me but I'll just give a smattering)

Nashville, Sunset Blvd, The White Ribbon, Picnic at Hanging Rock, Voyage to Italy, Last Days of Disco, Museum Hours, idk a lot lot lot lot lot more just ask and we can get more into it

Shows: Twin Peaks, Mad Men, Parks and Recreation, 30 Rock, Big Love, Lost in Space, What's My Line?,

Music: Beat Happening, of Montreal, Architecture in Helsinki, Beyonce, Bratmobile, Joanna Newsom, The Bangles, The Pastels, The Petenders, Veronica Falls, Hunx and His Punx, Slutever, Devo, The Fiery Furnaces, Nina Hagen, The B-52's, The Styrenes, Erin Earthling, The Breeders, Linda Ronstadt, Ronee Blakley, Most Ohio funk

Food: Cottage cheese, pierogi, french toast, broccoli, mac & cheese, pie, applesauce (but actually no food because I always accidentally sleep through meals)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Art in some form
2. Natural settings
3. Glamour (which I define very broadly)
4. Language
5. My forehead vein
6. Some sort of social interaction
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-American culture
-The way geography interacts with culture & identity
-anti-oppression shit, and also like the limits of that
-Emoticons :-)
-How I can convert this profile into some kind of art piece
-Will I ever finish reading Die Blechtrommel?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a horrifying party or else looking for a horrifying party or else thinking about horrifying parties or else just watching a movie or else sleeping
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Former emo kid whoops

also i kind of unironically love the music of jem & the holograms (although i prefer the misfits)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-you wanna watch some movies. ~~~sure way 2 my friendship~~~
-you're not some boring "str8-acting" masc white dude

But actually you should just message me because chances are I'm staring at thin sections or something and would love a distraction