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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 22
Relationship Type
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm generally an easy going person with a wide variety of interests. I enjoy live theater (performing or watching), watching football, and cooking, especially trying new ethnic recipes. I always like any combination of good food, good beer, good music, and good conversation. When I have down time, I'm equally happy playing with my kids, taking my dogs for a walk in the woods, sitting down with a good book or movie, or playing racquetball with a friend.

I enjoy seeking out new experiences (particularly new ethnic restaurants) and meeting new people, though I prefer a good conversation with a few people over drinks as opposed to a large party.
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work as the executive director for a social service agency. It took a while, but I finally found a job that I love and wouldn't trade it for anything. When I'm not working, I spend my time reading, raising my children and dogs, cooking, playing on stage, or pursuing whatever else currently catches my interest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making bad jokes and playing board games.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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It's hard to pick favorites for these (there are too many), but here are a few for each catergory

Books - Lord of the Rings Trilogy by J.R.R. Tolkien; "Small Gods," by Terry Pratchett; "God of the Oppressed," by James Cone; "Death of the Archbishop," by Willa Cather, "Prisoner of Zenda," by Anthony Hope

Movies - Once, August Rush, Garden State, Pineapple Express, Matrix, Lord of the Rings (yes, I'm a bit of a dork), Boondock Saints, This is Spinal Tap, Love Actually, Dogma, Monte Python's The Life of Brian.

Shows - I don't watch a lot of tv, but some shows I occasionally watch are the Simpsons, Top Gear (UK version), Idiot Abroad, or I often watch shows off of Food Network.

Music - It really depends on my mood. Some of the artists currently cycling through my playlists are U2, Muse, Grace Potter, Silversun Pickups, The Badlees, The Decemberists, Josh Radin, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Imogen Heap, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, Sufjan Stevens, Florence & The Machine, Beck, Yo-Yo Ma, Nirvana, Rodriugo y Gabriela, pretty much anything involving Jack White... I could keep going for a while.

Food - Any good ethnic restaurants (especially Japanese, Thai, Vietnamese, Indian, or Ethiopian) or local places with good vegetarian options.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, my wok, the theatre, books, music, Reese's peanut butter cups.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever random tangent my brain decides to go off on in that moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either playing with my kids or having dinner/ drinks with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a bit of a geek, who sometimes finds the Big Bang Theory uncomfortably accurate.
You should message me if
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You want to have a good conversation with an intelligent and genuinely nice guy.

You're cool with the fact that my kids are a huge part of my life.

You feel like it for any reason.