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JAM0903

39 F San Leandro, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a passionate, forthright, sarcastic, witty, and fancy myself an undiscovered comedian who plays lawyer by day to pay the bills.

I am spending a lot of time these days exploring a love for healthy cooking. There is something very relaxing about turning fresh ingredients into healthier versions of your favorites. I like a foods from around the world and hope you do too.

I have beautiful seven-year old twin boys who are full of life and who seem to know more than I do these days. I love kids because of their ability to melt your heart and drive you up a wall almost concurrently.

I own a family law firm that I am working very hard to grow into a family law mediation firm. I love what I do because it allows me to help people solve problems at one of the most vulnerable times of their lives using the skills with which I was blessed. My job is both emotionally and intellectually challenging, and for that reason I wouldn't trade it for anything.

I believe that each of us is a work in progress. As such, I try everyday to gain skills in living, loving, communicating, and understanding. Acknowledging that we all need work in these areas is very important to me....i love humility combined with effort.
What I’m doing with my life
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Practicing living a balanced life in which I have time for my mind, body, and spirit, my family, my work, and the world. Improving my health, letting go of what I can't change, and enjoying my life without worrying about what other people think about it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making conversation, writing, public speaking, telling jokes, and making others feel at ease.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, bright eyes, and sexy voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love fiction of many varieties; comedies and romances when it comes to movies or shows; live music, and most cuisines.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. God.
2. Laughter.
3. My kids.
4. My friends.
5. Dancing to live music.
6. My business.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to stop thinking so much. I am an attorney thinking is like breathing for me. I do it even when I don't want to. A quiet mind is a fantasy that I entertain often.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging with my sons or dancing to blues music with my girls.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Announcing it here would make it the most public thing I am willing to admit. However, I am a pretty open person so if we meet you can ask me then.
You should message me if
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you are single, funny, interested in getting or staying fit and healthy, like children, enjoy home cooked meals, and are willing to do dishes.