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39 San Leandro, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 28
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am smart, funny, and kind. I am looking for a partner, a friend, a lover, and a clown (sans the big red nose, please).

I am looking for a man who is confident enough in himself that he can live and let live. Someone who knows life is practiced, not mastered--meaning there is always something to learn. I love to laugh and hope you do to...sometimes even at ourselves because people are funny creatures.

It isn't always easy, but I am winning the war against long office hours. I go to the gym 5 times a week, I love cooking healthy versions of my favorites from around the world, and I spend lots of quality time with my friends and family.

I love live music especially small venue/local bands. I like most kinds of music, but for live performances I mostly follow blues, jazz, and brass bands these days. However on the radio or on iheart radio, I listen to a lot more pop, hip hop, rap, and throwbacks to my youth (U2, Depeche Mode, The Cure....etc.). I warn you now, I dance. I like to think it is good; I even receive compliments, but it would make no difference as I have a hard time keeping still if there is good music playing.

I also enjoy the local comedy scene and have a couple of comics who I try to support by going out to their shows when possible.

In addition to music and comedy, I enjoy movies, the beach, museums, car shows, parades, festivals, and farmers' markets. Just about anywhere that I can walk, look, laugh or dance is ideal to me. For outdoorsy activities, I enjoy boating and fishing--if you will bait my hook.

Looking forward to meeting you.
What I’m doing with my life
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Practicing living a balanced life in which I have time for my mind, body, and spirit, my family, my work, and the world. Improving my health, letting go of what I can't change, and enjoying my life without worrying about what other people think about it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, communicating, writing, telling jokes, and making others feel at ease.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, bright eyes, and sexy voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
See above.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. God.
2. Laughter.
3. My kids.
4. My friends.
5. Dancing to live music.
6. My business.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
inner peace, life balance, what recipe I should try next, and my next fitness goal.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging with my sons or dancing, hanging with friends, or seeing a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Announcing it here would make it the most public thing I am willing to admit. However, I am a pretty open person so if we meet you can ask me then.
You should message me if
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you are single, funny, interested in getting or staying fit and healthy, like children, enjoy home cooked meals, and are willing to do dishes.