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JBellum

28 / M / straight / Single

Farmington, New Mexico

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Other
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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My Self-Summary

Well here goes, i grew up on the East Coast ( New York / Pennsylvania ) until i joined the ARMY. After that i moved to AZ where i worked and went to college. Instead of finishing and transferring to ASU i took a job with Halliburton in Farmington through one of my closest friends from the ARMY. I work there still. Between the ARMY and college and a few other choices i have spent alot of time moving to new places, kinda nice to be grounded somewhere.

I have a bunch of hobbies but none that i am a master of. lol. I am pretty impulsive when it comes to trying most new things though. Went snowboarding for the first time this winter, just bought a bunch of new paintball equipment.

Being in Northern New Mexico is a small treat, even though I do miss the city at times. On any given day you can be in so many great places, hiking, camping or just spending a day at the lake with good friends.

What I’m doing with my life

Kinda just coasting....Working on a promotion at work and trying to finish my degree. Just trying to work as hard now as i can so that in 2 or 3 years i can start enjoying alot of that hard work and be rewarded for it. I just bought a HUGE 5 bedroom house that i share with my pitbull Lance. Figure work hard and make some sacrifices now so that when it comes a time when i want to enjoy life, I'll be able to.

I’m really good at

cooking. I love it. especially for friends and family...

I have an amazing skill to be able to listen to people and for some reason many people find it pretty easy to talk to me.

The first things people usually notice about me

Big smile....Brown Eyes and my unique sense of humor.

I am pretty open with nearly all of my opionions, not saying that I dont have any tact or dont know the importance of timing but I am pretty good about letting people know how i feel or think.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I am pretty eclectic when it comes to movies and music...there isnt much i won't watch or listen to. my IPOD and computer has music ranging from Bach to Boston, Young Jezzy to Aerosmith, Johnny Cash to Leona Lewis.
As long as it isnt Death Metal or some guy just barking and screaming i will likely listen to it.

latest things i have read are The Stand (Stephen King), the first book of the Twilight series (had to see what the big deal was all about) and Sahara(Clive Cussler, watched the movie thought i check out the book). Flags of our Fathers was a good book. I dont have much time to read like i used to...

I have recently become a fan of Dan Brown and James Rollins. The movie The Da Vinci Code doesn't come close to how good the book was in my opinion, just something about how he writes.

I don't really have much time for TV watching so i end up buying series that i think are interesting: Family Guy, Grey's Anatomy, Dexter, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia and The Office.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where my life is headed and how i'm going to get there.

On a typical Friday night I am

hanging with some friends or working late lol just depends on the week i guess...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am afraid to grow old lonely....

You should message me if

You want someone nice to talk to or if youre looking to have a good time and smile while we're laughing. :)