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5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I try to enjoy life. It's important not to take things too seriously. People tend to miss the experience if they're too focused on the goal. I live for the journey. I believe that people can do ANYTHING if they just get out there and do it. I try to be well-rounded and attempt new things, even if I know I'm no good at them initially. I believe in "practice makes perfect." I enjoy discovering new things, but new experiences are best if they're shared.

I dabble in politics, war, religion, and morality. All these things will hurt your head, but they're real. Little things make me happy. I don't like surprises, unless I'm totally oblivious. I can say the alphabet faster in reverse. I obsess over outer space. I write with my left and throw with my right. I have never had a cavity.

As a general rule, I try to have as much fun as I can, all of the time. As a realist, I think it helps to have a sense of humor. I take the good and the bad. It's all good.
What I’m doing with my life
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I research cancer therapies at MIT. I chose a career in science because it's challenging. I'm not afraid to ask the tough questions, and I'm always searching for answers.

I'm a scientist at heart, but I try to be practical. I know how to clone genetic material, but I can also rebuild your bathroom. I've worked the graveyard shift in a warehouse, dropped hammers for a contractor, worked all angles of a restaurant, and busted knuckles as a mechanic. I can do manual labor, I just prefer the mental labor.

I have an artsy side that needs to "create." I've finished three albums with two different bands, and will occasionally throw together some songs of my own. There's a half-written novel called "Sunspots" kicking around on some shared drive with my name on it.

I'm fairly recently a winemaker. The process is actually quite complicated. It's cooking, it's chemistry, it's biology, it's art. It's fucking cool.

I mess around with photography from time to time. It's something I'd like to get better at. I haven't quite yet found my niche, but I do enjoy it.
I’m really good at
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I'm a filthy drummer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - The Collector (John Fowles), American Psycho (Bret Easton Ellis), House of Leaves (Mark Danielewski), Galapagos (Kurt Vonnegut), The Andromeda Strain (Michael Crichton), The Case for Mars (Bob Zubrin), On Writing (Stephen King), World War Z (Max Brooks), Diary (Chuck Palahniuk), The Old Man and the Sea (Ernest Hemingway).

Movies - The Devil's Rejects, Primer, The Fountain, Eternal Sunshine, Natural Born Killers, Moon, Fight Club, I Heart Huckabees, The Big Lebowski... I do love documentaries.

Shows - Californication, The Office, Modern Family, Stewart/Colbert, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Lost, The Wire, Homeland, Louie.

Music - Nine Inch Nails, Tool, Phish, HTDA, Iron and Wine, Clint Mansell, Damien Rice, Elliott Smith, Other Lives, Slipknot, System of a Down, Wu-Tang , K West, Talib Kweli, Tony Bennett, Tchaikovsky.

Food - I can't really get into raw tomato, but I'll eat it. Everything else is good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. C6H12O6 + 6O2 ---> 6CO2 + 6H2O
2. Books/internet/information
3. Other people's art
4. A creative outlet of my own
5. Questions/unknowns
6. An appreciation for humor, sarcasm, and irony
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When I space out, I'm most typically thinking about science and nature, the physical laws of the Cosmos, human behavior, world politics, global terrorism, religious extremism, and/or war... deeeep shit. However, I could also be wondering what Phillip Seymour Hoffman's best role is... or which tune Phish will play as an opener 2nd-set in Ohio... or whether I should use the word "unorganized" or "disorganized" in conversation. I think about the pieces and the puzzle.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't sleep in a car when someone else is driving, for fear that if we crash and burn, I'll be robbed of my final moment of zen.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you're fun, curious, and cool.