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JCOASTAL
29 / M / straight / Single
San Diego, California
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 10" (1.77m).
- Body Type
- Average
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Other and laughing about it
- Sign
- Gemini but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Graduated from law school
- Job
- Other
- Income
- Rather not say
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Owns dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am spontaneous, deliberate, and curious.
My Self-Summary
I live alone, with my dog. Both of us would like a new person or
new persons to spend time with. We like a lot of similar things -
dog parks, hiking, and cafes. Ideally you will as well.
That wasn't so much of a self-summary as it should have been, is it?
I also surround myself with objects that I used to occupy myself with but no longer do. Hello, guitars, and Gocco. The Gocco will be used again soon, I do hope. I found some new bulbs. [Update: I dropped about 20 bulbs yesterday, and doubt they will work properly. Hooray].
That wasn't so much of a self-summary as it should have been, is it?
I also surround myself with objects that I used to occupy myself with but no longer do. Hello, guitars, and Gocco. The Gocco will be used again soon, I do hope. I found some new bulbs. [Update: I dropped about 20 bulbs yesterday, and doubt they will work properly. Hooray].
What I’m doing with my life
I'm trying to figure that out. Being poor, work is a pretty big
part of my life, and I found that I very much disliked my last job,
which was, sadly, one that I had spent a great deal of time and
money preparing for. It was not a total waste, for I liked the
study very much. So, I'm sort of bringing it around full-circle,
and trying to reincorporate social work/social advocacy into my
professional life.
I really want to do some volunteer work, but have to get a few things on a better track before I can do that. I've worked with children and took some fascinating courses on domestic violence issues, so my big interest is in vulnerable populations. I definitely will be occupying some time with these issues in the near future.
I also am giving some thought to acquiring a Fennec fox.
I really want to do some volunteer work, but have to get a few things on a better track before I can do that. I've worked with children and took some fascinating courses on domestic violence issues, so my big interest is in vulnerable populations. I definitely will be occupying some time with these issues in the near future.
I also am giving some thought to acquiring a Fennec fox.
I’m really good at
Saying the right thing at the wrong time.
Saying the wrong thing at the right time.
Dealing with unpleasant folks and unpleasant situations.
Letting go.
Keeping myself focused.
Fixing random things that need repair.
Browsing.
Saying the wrong thing at the right time.
Dealing with unpleasant folks and unpleasant situations.
Letting go.
Keeping myself focused.
Fixing random things that need repair.
Browsing.
The first things people usually notice about me
It's probably pretty obvious that while I'm overall a pretty clean
person that I don't spend too much time getting myself ready, and
thus may have mismatched socks, unkempt hair or a pant leg tucked
into my shoes.
I also have a hell of a time keeping my eyeglasses even. Drives me crazy.
I also have a hell of a time keeping my eyeglasses even. Drives me crazy.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: Invisible Cities. Stardust. Blankets. Believers. Goodbye
Chunky Rice.
Movies: Breakfast at Tiffany's. Dreams. Wendy and Lucy. Manhattan. Annie Hall.
Music: Belle & Sebastian. Leonard Cohen. Nick Cave. Nick Drake. Jesus & Mary Chain. My Bloody Valentine. Joy Division. Sundays. Pulp. Velvet Underground. Mum. Bikini Kill. Huggy Bear. Cure.
Food: Rasberries. Tom Yum. Fruit teas. Blueberries. Spring rolls. IPA.
Movies: Breakfast at Tiffany's. Dreams. Wendy and Lucy. Manhattan. Annie Hall.
Music: Belle & Sebastian. Leonard Cohen. Nick Cave. Nick Drake. Jesus & Mary Chain. My Bloody Valentine. Joy Division. Sundays. Pulp. Velvet Underground. Mum. Bikini Kill. Huggy Bear. Cure.
Food: Rasberries. Tom Yum. Fruit teas. Blueberries. Spring rolls. IPA.
The six things I could never do without
1. Pets
2. Something to read
3. Something to write with and on
4. Some source of music
5. My willingness to change
6. Floss
6(a). Drive-ins
6(b). Cafes
2. Something to read
3. Something to write with and on
4. Some source of music
5. My willingness to change
6. Floss
6(a). Drive-ins
6(b). Cafes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Yesterday, tomorrow, my career, law, ownership, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Perhaps home, or at a cafe, or Borders, or at a bar or music venue,
or a friend's place.
Never at a disco or a sporting event, or racing my car, or anything silly like that.
Never at a disco or a sporting event, or racing my car, or anything silly like that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Somebody convinced me to read an Eckart Tolle book! Keep that shit
quiet.
You should message me if
you want to?
