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40 • M • Chicago, IL
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 28–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Online now!
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
I'm a professional photographer of 15 years. I'm an RN of 1 year. I've been a teacher and a trainer and I love watching the lights turn on. I enjoy watching naive discovery happen. Every professional should learn to be an ameture all over again.
I tend to be very liberal and I think harmony in a relationship is largely determined by consistent values. Our world views will conflict and collide if you are not LGBT friendly, compassionate towards the poor, unprejudiced towards race ethnicity and religion, critical of consumerism, and able to entertain a thought without accepting it. Open mindedness is essential and I welcome conversations that may challenge me. These can be passionate, but never personal.
I'm not so good at, but enjoy dancing, sewing, and board/card games.
Not giving advice when it is best not to do so.
Zen Mind Beginner's Mind. I've read more Graham Greene novels than I can remember. Kafka, Kundera, Nabakov, and Salinger. I'm reading Children of the Days by Eduardo Galeano. Its awesome, I'll loan it to you after the third date.
I love the classics like Fellini (subtitles are AOK). Anything by Jim Jarmusc, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind was great. Loved it! Charlie Chaplin is amazing. Documentaries and mockumentaries, can't get enough of them.
Ted.com is pretty cool. Less politics, more Ted.
Claude Debussy, Erik Satie, Revel, David Sylvian, Savages, Nick Cave, Radiohead, Joan Jett, Charlie Byrd, Miles Davis, Thelonius Monk, Morrissey (I know...) Bjork, Patricia Barber, The Kills. I play old time banjo because I'm a hipster.
I can cook well and I can crank it out for large groups. I appreciate eating healthy as a rule, but I believe in moderation in all things, especially in butter. I have a very adventurous pallet. I dare you to dare me to eat it. I recently made palak paneer. I can make it for you if the fourth date goes well.
You like to have fun.
You can make brave choices and you don't follow a crowd.
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