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46 San Diego, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:50am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Christianity and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Dutch (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a humble and private person. It has been a bit agonizing deciding what is important to share in this space and whether to access social media at all to search for a romantic partner. But nothing risked, nothing gained. Life is for living...not for hiding under a rock. One of my favorite quotes from a friend on his search is: "I'm not playing hard-to-get, I'm just hard-to-find." I can relate to that.
I'd love for my closest friends to have some input here. Personality-wise, I'm "warm, generous, vivacious, soulful, personally conscientious and interpersonally sensitive. I have a strong desire to contribute to the welfare of others." I am a bit of an introvert but my friends would disagree. After I've met you in person, I'm not such an introvert.
I own my own business as a consultant in the medical field. This gives me some freedom to adventure/relax between contracts, which for me is ideal. Work is important but so is life and having control over that balance is invaluable.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm investigating the possibilities that seem to pop-up everywhere!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...supporting others. Be it through listening or lending a helping hand. Harmony in my personal relationships is important to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...are my blue eyes and/or my white teeth. I only have genetics to thank. Work with what you've got, be genuine, it's important.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh, so many things...where do I start? I love the Myers-Briggs personality-typing (pop-psychology?). There are so many great books related to that. Movies: I'm a little too sensitive for horror films at this age but I'm game for most other things. For me, watching movies is like a roller-coaster ride for the soul. I think I can really "feel" them. I love the movie Shadowlands about C.S. Lewis. Shows: Improv Comedy!!! Avenue Q, The Sound of Music, Shakespeare...I love the theatre. Music: I run the gamut here - I wish I had a singing voice, I'd use it for sure! I love lyrics, especially the prolific lyricists. Food: Taste and smell are so important.... I like most food. Cheese is probably my favorite food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Thee Great Outdoors
2. Connection
3. Humor
4. Curiosity
5. Romance
6. Authenticity
(7. Coffee)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how I can make a positive impact.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm out with friends at dinner or happy hour. If I've had a hectic work-week, I'll be staying in and relaxing with dinner and a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was in a movie. My friend's full-length film. I was supposed to be an extra but was given a small part. It was really fun. Improv is my new west interest. Such a cool medium and you learn so much just living in the moment.
You should message me if
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If you are dependable, have the ability to self-actualize, are communicative and believe the right person can make you more than you are alone.