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JFerndale

31 / M / Straight / Single

Pleasant Ridge, Michigan

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:06pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm far more awkward in electronic messages than I actually am face to face. I haven't figured out how to fix that yet. I've been told that I'm funny, kind and surprisingly nimble. I've been refinishing vintagey type things lately - mostly furniture. I've got a couple projects done with a bunch left to do. Meeting someone that also enjoys doing that sort of thing would be brilliant. Not required by any means, but it certainly would be cool. I'm a musician at heart. I enjoy good design and wish I had a talent for it. I'm a father of two awesome boys who take up quite a bit of my time. They have a mother, I am in no way looking for another one. I'm a happy, well-adjusted, low-drama dude looking for some companionship.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to better myself professionally and personally. Raising two little guys. Having fun.
I’m really good at
Music type stuff. Cooking a great steak. Being patient. Making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes, humor, general bad-assery.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't have much time to read, but I mostly enjoy non-fiction.

Movies: Shaun of the dead, hot fuzz, drowning Mona (I'm one of 6 people that love this movie I think). Directors: Christopher Guest, Guy Ritchie, Christopher Nolan. I'm not a big movie guy.

Recent Slacker/Spotify faves: the national, washed out, sleigh bells, chairlift, Peter Bjorn and John, arcade fire, Beirut, Bon iver, broken social scene, yeasayer, young the giant, grizzly bear and fleet foxes. The new Daft Punk album is killer as is Timberlake's.

All time faves: radiohead, the flaming lips, the brothers groove, knee deep shag, the Beatles, Paul Simon, among many others.

I love NPR, PRI, PRX, etc. My favorite podcasts are: this American life, freakonomics, radiolab, 99 percent invisible, and wait wait....

TV (or Netflix): archer, arrested development, Seinfeld, portlandia, it's always sunny..., Louie, 30 rock, the daily show

I love all kinds of food. Except fish. I don't like fish. Shellfish I like. Fish without shells, I don't.
The six things I could never do without
The kids, music, public radio, friendship, coffee and....food. I phoned that last one in.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Anything and everything. Seriously, I can't turn my brain off sometimes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out, staying in - wherever the night leads. Never really typical, but rarely super-crazy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm divorced. It's a matter of public record, so I suppose it's not really that private, but I can't think of anything else.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like what you see/read.

You are happy with your life.

You're not crazy. Please don't be crazy. Maybe a little crazy. Definitely not super crazy though.

You want to play Yahtzee.

You want to refinish the shit out of some old furniture.