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31 M Newark, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I enjoy the outdoors, sports, art, music, and good company. Basketball would be my choice of sports, but I also really enjoy touch football, Ultimate Frisbe, soccer, cycling and running. If it is a competitive physical activity then I am game, but I am only competitive out of good fun.

I enjoy people who know how to let go of outside pressures, be down to earth, and remain driven to go after what they want in life.

I believe in collecting experience over material objects and that history is made in the midst of the local scenes rather than on the big stages.

I am on OK Cupid, because I think it is a possible route to meeting a woman who is a great life playmate and companion. Plus meeting women at public events or bars comes with a lot of stigma that I am not comfortable with or don't want to give the impression of.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a doctoral student at Rutgers. I study reward, decision making, and perception (mostly vision)

If you want to know more ask! I would love to talk about it!

Outside of that, I am just generally trying to enjoy myself and the people around me when I can.
I’m really good at
Making jokes and laughing at them
making people laugh
Using things in ways other than directed
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am easy going and laid back
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is going to be lengthy, so I will just say that there is something from every genre I enjoy.

Sci-Fi: The Dune Series, Stranger in a Strange Land, The Man Who Sold the Moon, Citizen of the Galaxy, The Hunger Games, The Sparrow and Children of God (sequel).....

Non-Fiction: Anything related to neuroscience, philosophy, or applications of physics. Current Favorites: Phantoms in the Brain, The Righteous Mind: Why good people are torn between politics and religion, and Physics of the impossible,

TV: Criminal Minds, Doctor Who, Torchwood,The IT Crowd, Kids in the Hall, Game of Thrones, The Big Bang Theory, Seinfeld and Friends, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Family Guy, Dexter, 30 Rock, Arrested Development, Sherlock, Californication, Archer, The League, Battlestar Galactica

Music: If it has a good groove, I'm in......I love a good blues jam in a live venue and my tastes are eclectic. If it is popular in the CLUB or bars, I probably don't know the lyrics, but can dance my ass off to it.

To list all time favorites: Radiohead, Beck, Incubus, Mr. Marley, Jessica Lea Mayfield, Regina Spektor A.A. Bondy, Florence and the Machine, Rage Against The Machine, Sublime, 311, The XX, Ben, Harper, Eagles, Beatles, Tom Petty, Atmosphere, Mos Def, Jurassic 5, MGMT, My Morning Jacket, Incubus, Citizen Cope, Jimi Hendrix, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Animal Collective, Cut Copy, The Pieces of Shit, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, John Mayer, Adele, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Eric Clapton, B.B. King.......Rodriguez
The six things I could never do without
Knowing that the self and reality are to be constructed, rather than discovered


Jalapeños on my bacon burger

Mango flavored fruit drinks

Craft beer on a Friday or Saturday night

I spend a lot of time thinking about
How we need don't feed the rats signs in the NYC subways e.g. Stop littering in the subway and in general, there are trash cans everywhere, literally!'
On a typical Friday night I am
If I am not studying, I am up for anything that involves quality time with my friends or potentially you. I would likely suggest live music at a small venue, drinks at a craft brew bar, a day of cruising the city on a couple of bikes or a simple dinner, movie, and chat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
....I have an obsession with mechanical pencils......kind of creepy I know
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you would like to get to know each other over craft beer or your drink of choice

If you know why escalators can never actually break

Or if you like dinosaurs.

If you want to