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JHartnow

39 Decatur, GA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Corporate Graphic Artist
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm pretty adaptable, honest and transparent. I'm passionate about a wide variety of things and like to be around the same flock. I think passion is an important part of the human condition, especially expression of yourself. I love art, film, books and sugar-free chocolate pudding. And elipses'...and hyphenated words. I loathe mean people, especially those who throw you under the bus for personal gain. In pretty sure Dolly Parton wrote a song about it. I'm a bit reserved with people until I feel comfortable in the situation. That's when my extroversion comes out. I'm very friendly but don't make friends easily. But once we click - it's for life.

I'm a part time costumer and have been fortunate to work on a few shows in NYC through Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS, (it's a great charity). A couple of witches, a blonde girl in pink and a group of struggling East Village artists are my favorites.

I'm looking for compatible people for "friendlyship", learning new things, dining-out, dining-in, geeking out over old movies or just waxing about our week over coffee. Or beer. Or water.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making stuff - people say I'm pretty creative. Ringling School of Art and Design, BFA in illustration. Class of '97.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height - I'm 6'5". I know! I can't believe it either!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
Addams, Gorey, Baum, King, Chbosky, Christopher Rice, Gregory Maguire, Christopher Moore,Tolkien, Pablo Neruda, Lewis Carroll...

Music:
I'm just going to copy and paste my current iTunes playlist:
Lady Gaga, Muse, Coldplay, Travis, Sara Bereilles, David Gray, Daniel Powter, Linkin Park, Debussy, Howie Day, Amos Lee, Radio Head, Tori Amos, Sarah McLachlan, Yiruma, The Cranberries, Secondhand Serenade, Bush, Dido, Joe Brooks, My Chemical Romance, Nada Surf, Katie Melua, 30 Seconds To Mars, Des'ree, Madonna, REM, LUDO, Bach, Gavin Rossdale, 311, Billy Joel, Hoobastank, Jim Dooley, Joe Firstman, Jewel, Michelle
Featherstone, Aqualung, Chantal Kreviazuk, Ah Ha, Eva Cassidy, Jason Mraz, Benny Goodman, Nikki French, Collective Soul, Ingrid Michaelson, Enya, Joseph Arthur, Annie Lennox, Fatboy Slim, Evanescense, Armor For Sleep, Saliva, Sugarcult, Rooney,
The Verve Pipe, Vertical Horizon, The Vines, All American Rejects,
Audioslave, Blue October, Relient K, Marjorie Fair, Keane, Matchbox 20, U2, Jimmy Eat World, The Flaming Lips, Foo Fighters, Blink 182, Frank Sinatra, The Fray, Billy Idol, INXS, Plain White T's, Jack's Mannequin, Fuel, NIN, Aerosmith, Incubus, Korn, Jimmy Gnecco, 3 Doors Down, Simon & Garfunkel, Judy Garland, Death Cab For Cutie, Daniel Bedenfield, Culture Club, Edwin McCain, Esthero, Enya, Dolly Parton, Cyndi Lauper, Elton John, Billie Holiday...

Film:
The Goonies, The Wizard of Oz, RENT, Rebel Without A Cause, Ghost Busters, Spirited Away, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Frieda, Lady Jane, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes, The Meaning of Life, Holy Grail, Mary Poppins, Kurosawa's DREAMS, Moulin Rouge, The Triplets of Belleville, Legally Blonde, Meet Me In St. Louis, The Bourne Identity, Invasion of the body snatchers, Star Wars, Amelie, Clueless, Return to Oz, Donnie Darko, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, Stay, Light In The Piazza, Harry Potter, Singin' In The Rain, The Little Mermaid, Back to the Future, Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, The Seven Year Itch...and EVERYTHING Disney.

Television:
OUaT, Dr. Who, Bones, Little Britain, The Walking Dead, True Blood, The History Channel, HGTV, Cooking Network, Glee, Dexter, American Horror Story, Buffy, Arrow, I Dream of Jeannie.

Food:
Fairly adventurous foodie, I love trying new places. Let's go!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends
Family
Computer
Sketchbook
Piano
Vacation Days
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life. Where I am. Where I'm headed...existential fodder like that. I also obsess over art and music and film.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Because I spend so much time with my personality "turned on", (forced extroversion!), I enjoy quiet evenings at home, at dinner or out at a film, preferably enjoying the company with someone who is engaging, considerate and kind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a collector and historian on THE WIZARD OF OZ. I've been "mis"quoted in several books and I was just filmed for a documentary on the original Ruby Slippers worn by Judy Garland. I'm an open book...no real secrets here. I'm just a gay nerd trying to find his way through this bent life.
You should message me if
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You're self aware. You're witty. You like to shop and laugh. You're a foodie. You have passion AND compassion. You're not afraid to color/think/live outside the lines, You believe in giving back to (a) community. You are, in some way, part of fandom, You're not "living" in a gay bar. You understand that I'm here for friends and dating (which doesn't imply sex on the first few dates). In the grand scheme of life I'd like to reach self-actualization, but for now, finding simpatico seems to be the outstretched, if not hard-to-obtain goal.

CHEERS!

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