I avoid the bar scene and those who over indulge in alcohol and drugs. For me, sitting down and having coffee or lunch with someone and discussing the important things in life is the biggest turn on.
Typically some NYT Best Seller selections
So You Think You Can Dance
Ghost Hunting shows (I don't know why)
Long Island Medium (I love her!)
Indy and Foreign films
American Horror Story
Pretty much all cuisines especially spicy foods; love Indian, Mexican, Thai, Vietnamese
4. Olives and Pickles
5. Working out (not a vain gym freak, though)
Oh, and I cry sometimes when watching So You Think You Can Dance. Love it and I'm not ashamed!