I enjoy spontaneity; short trips domestic or international (Puerto Rico is likely next); spend a good amount of time reading, working, watching movies, playing chess; working out (basketball, weights, etc). Spending time with friends and family, planning my next moves, setting up for the future, while trying to live most of the time time in the moment.
FYI, I can also fix your roof or build you a new bathroom. Just don't expect the latter on the first date - I may start to be suspicious of ulterior motives. ;-)
Among the most important traits for me in a woman are: you're generally happy/cheerful, a bit of a wise-ass, loving, compassionate, humble, and respectful of yourself, others, and life.
But "chemistry" is the thing, right? So best to just meet for a quick drink and say "hi".