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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:03am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Young at heart (40's the new didn't know?). Playful :-p. Financially secure. Love to travel, especially long trips to really soak in the culture. Open-minded and tolerant. I err on the side of compassion. Fit (Sort of Hugh Jackman-ish...). A risk-taker. Dry-ish sense of humor. Contemplative. Incessantly amazed. Curious and inquisitive. Passionate in my beliefs, but stubbornly open-minded.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on several start-up business projects; exercising; pondering; exploring; traveling; learning. I'm busy, and it'd be nice to find someone I click with to spend downtime doing fun things (and nothing).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
staying single, apparently.
mixing business and pleasure (To avoid any confusion: I enjoy what I do - I do not sleep with all my business associates.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fav books: Atlas Shrugged, The Fountainhead. Right now I'm reading The Martian and Brothers Karamazov.

Movies: so many, but here are some that I can peel off the top of my brain: The Drop; 28 Days Later, Pan's Labyrinth, 21 Jumpstreet, Shine, The Departed, Goodwill Hunting, Shawshank Redemption, The Count of Monte Cristo, Amadeus, The Matrix.

TV Shows: Breaking Bad, The Wire, Sherlock, Boardwalk Empire, House of Cards.

NPR,,, slashdot, techcrunch, business insider.

Food: Yes

Music: All over the map
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nothing. I'm an island.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life in general
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working out, netflix, reading, playing chess, drunkenly blacked out in a gutter stewing in my own vomit. Jusssst kidding - I rarely work out Friday nights
You should message me if
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you're slender and/or athletic;
you're good at balancing heavy activity with lounging on the couch whether in the living room, in a hotel, or cool off-the beaten-path hostel;
you're sharp/on point;
you're sweet as pie, but edgy on the crust;
you strive for balance emotionally/mentally/spiritually;
you understand partnership;
you have practiced gratitude enough to be good at it;
you can mix class with brash, you know the line betwixt the two, and can navigate it adeptly.