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29 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Soulful over outgoing.
Well-read but not pop-savvy
Curiosity over certainty
Idiosyncratic Enigma
Well traveled and always wander-lusting
Comfort over aesthetic
Red wine over Beer, and I love beer.
Chai Guy
Night-owl day dreamer
Resting Bitch Face

Other people keep calling me an "old soul" and now I do too.
What I’m doing with my life
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Dreaming of a boat, an urban homestead with some big dogs, ever increasing amounts of travel miles and the elusive someone with a sense of adventure to share these kinds of things with.

Resigning to the possibility that the sarcastic, sultry, sassy, and spontaneous partner I pine for is too difficult to find, or at least the unlikelihood that she would be found here, but still worth a shot.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Beer/Wine. Fires. Crosswords. Randomness. Daydreaming. Nocturnal activity. Insomnia. Trivium.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Cinemas- The Fountain, The Royal Tenenbaums, Hero, Jackie Brown, Moon, Fight Club, Brotherhood of the Wolf, Blue Velvet, A Scanner Darkly, The Proposition, Last of the Mohicans, Sexy Beast, Time Bandits, Monty Python, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Little Big Man, 12 Monkeys, Blade Runner, Alien, Cape Fear, The Shining. Etc etc etc.

The few shows I've enjoyed: Twin Peaks, X-Files, The Outer Limits, Rome, Flight of the Conchords, Real Time, Cosmos, Planet Earth, True Detective. yeah Game of Thrones was good too.

Nightstand- Dan Simmons, Bertrand Russell, Thomas Harris, Christopher Hitchens, Palahniuk, Dawkins, Kant, Lovecraft, Philip K. Dick.

Music- Randomness akin to universal birth. 99% of the time I won't know that band you rave about. Pandora internet radio factors heavily into my musical discovery but really I'm a musical dinosaur.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'll be cooking next?

Why good ideas are so difficult for humans to comprehend and implement.



My dwindling admiration and respect for humanity is most often applied to dead men: Carl Sagan, Nikola Tesla, Galileo Galilei, Voltaire, Bertrand Russell, Friedrick Nietzsche, Jean-Paul Sartre, Alan Watts, Stanley Kubrick, Philip K. Dick, Francis Drake, Sitting Bull, Jacque Fresco (glad he is still kicking).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wrap up at work and hopefully go out and enjoy the last couple hours before it is Saturn's Day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have no shame.

I developed early on a sense of self and ability to function as a loner. Still have hope of finding someone to be my partner.
You should message me if
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You are surprised by who you end up "matched" with.

You are tired of messages and would rather just meet for a drink because it does not have to be that big of a deal.