It's hard to say what your perfect match would be, but, perhaps it's someone who is clever and enjoys hulu nights as much as downtown nights. I think my perfect match may be nerdy (intelligent) but able to socialize. Comfortable in blue jeans or black dress. Witty, stimulating and fun.
Here it goes;
I've done a lot in life to decide who I am. I can fix your car or computer. I've been a party animal living in Las Vegas and I've been a homebody/stay at home dad (my exs kid, not mine). Life was a rough start, but I'm getting to a good place these days. All of those American dream things, career, car, and soon enough a dog.
All that is to preface who I am today. I just love life. People, acceptance, open minds, deep connections. I've met a lot of people who, over a glass of wine or two, I've had some amazing conversations. Just not the ones that really spark you, if that makes any sense? Quality people, quality times, just not that chemistry I'm looking for.
I can definitely turn it on and off and like that in other people. As in, I do work a pretty intense job, I love it, but I like my quiet and social times. Some of the things that really get me going are anything a little adventurous: paintballing, gun range, skydiving, dirt biking. My more day to day loves are getting amazing food, quiet brunches with a mimosa, going to little hole in the walls that you get to be great friends with the owner and they bring you out your favorite drink before even saying hello. Taking that food home and watching some hulu/netflix at home or staying there and chatting a while. If it's nice out, going to the farmers market and then making it to the water front or a park to snack and walk.
I really enjoy people that I respect in one way or another. I have a huge amount of respect for my brothers fiancee for putting up with him! Hah!
I'm a really fun loving person, who is spontaneous in nature, but, I try to stay pretty structured now. I think that's the quickest way I can describe myself. I'm really fun loving but put my priorities first. I like to do things but prefer quality over quantity with everything in life. I really love deep connections but am a bit guarded, I truly do work at that. It takes me a little while to open up and be trusting, I know it's a flaw.
I'm really excited to meet someone and hope you find the perfect person for you too. Maybe that's us, maybe it's not. What I do know is we won't find out unless we try. If I might be your type and you think you might be mine, lets talk!